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asked 2017-05-04 20:02:15 -0500

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updated 2017-05-09 18:10:41 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

I am not sure whether I am right or wrong. But my normal pattern is that I don't really talk to anyone that much, I have a few friends and a few acquaintances that I am cool with. But other people have raised questions on the way I am, i.e. My parents and friends they tell me that I am going to be lonely and end up alone if I don't really make an effort to make friends or close relationships

But I usually don't feel a void , I am quite happy when I am studying and when I do path or when I excercise. And these things take so much of my time that I don't really feel the need to be chasing friends. I am usually confused whether I living life the right way, because I don't have many friends and I don't feel like making friends , is there something wrong with me?

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answered 2017-05-04 22:54:26 -0500

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Dear Anon, People often give advice that is based on their own life view and what they think is right for other people. But you know yourself the best, and you know what works well for you. Trust that. It’s okay to have few friends and acquaintances. (In reality no one can maintain hundreds of close relationships in the first place. We only have so much limited time). You don’t feel a void which means what you are doing is working for you. I think being social tends to be over-emphasized sometimes. It is really important to be able to be alone with onself too. At a different time in your life you might go out seeking out other friendships. I don’t think you will end up lonely. You aren’t lonely now after all. And if you start to feel lonely in the future you can always go out and find some friends, nothing will prevent you from doing that at any point in your life. So don’t worry about that part!

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answered 2017-07-27 08:08:05 -0500

hey anon i want to be a friend with you @5daljit its my twitter account

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answered 2017-08-15 02:24:00 -0500

Veer Singh gravatar image

Bro take that as a blessing from waheguru. Many people are stuck in relationships on earth and admist it they forget about sikhi. There is nothing wrong with you , I am told by my parent that im a introvert and my mom always says things like that too me but i dont mind. Just stay attached to Sikhi you will find more happiness than you imagined

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