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i hate you god, i hate u

asked 2015-04-26 06:48:18 -0600

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i know that the title of my question will be annoying to you but after facing numerous problems in my life, i have to say that i hate you god. he knows everything but he is still not helping me, he is just watching at me laughing. so that's why i have decided not to follow your path. my mom was wrong who was teaching me that try your best and rest leave to god because now i have finally concluded that there is no god, and by mistake if there is any thing in this world like god then i can respectfully say that that thing always favors and help the bad people. that thing named god always mug the innocent people and make them to suffer a lot. the rich is becoming more richer day by day and poor people like me are loosing money everyday and are becoming more poorer day by day.

i am soo sorry but i am writing all this because now i am fed up from my life. i don't want to live anymore now. even after praying a lot, doing ardaas, paath, listening kirtans and doing good karmas what i am getting is only failure everywhere. i even cry everyday in front of babaji to sort out my problems which i have been facing from last two years and please bless me but the result and the response i am getting is only a zero.

its been more than an year for me living in New Zealand and still i can say that i am useless with no job. people are earning a lot of money everyday, their bank accounts are very heavy. they have paid back their student loans. they are living a luxurious life and they are all happy. even the students including girls who came this year have earned more money than me. the girl whom i liked said to me that u r useless, u have spent one year and u earn only $250 a week. boy who came here last week has started earning $1000 a week. everyone have got good jobs because their family members have helped them a lot and the most strange thing about these rich guys are that all of them have cut down their hair. they visit gurudwara but don't maintain their kesh. no one helped me here. i was alone, i struggled a lot but still i am a loser. i have no money left in my bank a/c now. my student loan amount is increasing day by day. the world is earning money everyday but my fucking life sucks me. i don't know whether i would be able to complete my degree or not ? whether i would be able to pay my rent and other expenses, whether i would be able to live in this world or not ? i have just became a burden on my parents and i have decided that i will suicide ... (more)

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answered 2015-04-26 09:16:55 -0600

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

RELAX.

Everyone in this world suffers, whether your Gurmukh or Manmukh. The Gurus and Gursikhs faced hard times as well, but they accepted it as Wahegurus hukam. Like Guru Arjan Dev Ji Mahraj, had hot sand poured on him, sat on a burning hot plate and sat in boiling hot water, Guru Gobind Singh Ji gave up his 4 sons. This to us is worldly pain, so if it happened to our Gurus it will happen to us.

With your job, my brother has cut hair brought up and studied in the UK, got his degree, and a year later no job. You can't blame Guru Ji, for example if you don't study for an exam, and go to Guru Ji saying please can I get top marks. Well if you didn't put effort in why would he help you, like some one said he ain't santa claus.

The job market is tuff, you got to stand out. Just having a first class degree ain't enough. You need internships, past experience, play some types of sport/instrument etc.

When I was 14/15 my mental health got bad, I just wanted to die. But my life turn completely around, and I can give that credit to Guru Ji. We only look at the bad side of things 90% of time we get what we want, the other 10% what we don't get we complain and say stuff to Guru Ji.

You have to do accept the Hukam of Waheguru, bad and good going to happen. Just having money ain't everything.

Check this other question out, posted on here, a sikh guy living in New Zealand Jobless and wants to cut his hair.

Check out this link - for more answers

Please forgive me if i said anything wrong or offensive.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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answered 2015-05-16 02:55:40 -0600

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wjkk wjkf thnx everyone to answer my question i am so sorry for the delay in replying for your answers. i have realised my mistake god has teached me a personal chapter. i am really satisfied with what i have. thank you everyone.

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answered 2015-04-28 01:05:04 -0600

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WJKK WJKF Waheguru ji, I understand why you want to give up and you don't have to listen to me but always remember and think. .. You may enjoy life now, but what about after you die? How about when you are standing in the court of our Beloved God? You will feel ashamed. Will you tell him you gave up faith for a job. A Job that won't matter after you retire or die? God is everywhere, he is watching, the bad in your life is based on your past bad deeds. If you mess up this life, you will have to go through it again in the next life. Choice is yours but if you continue with the path of Sikhi, God himself will take care of the problems.
I can say much more but I will leave it up to you. Yet think about this, you came to the website of Sikhs, You asked for advice from Sikhs, why would you come here, One reason, you doubt your decision. That doubt is your reminder that if you stay strong, you can survive in this world. I hope I didn't offend you in any way. WJKK WJKF

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answered 2015-04-27 15:39:57 -0600

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