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asked 2012-09-19 22:38:51 -0500

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updated 2012-09-20 17:07:27 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

I have lost almost everything,my carrier,my husband who died last year just after some months of marriage.I am sure i can't live without him,how much i want to move on but can't.I never hurt or harm anybody in this birth and I have no knowledge about past birth.Is there any way so that I can think positive about my future?I need a direction.I used to read nitnem daily but everything in vain.Please help me.

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answered 2012-09-20 17:07:02 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

You say you have lost almost everything. What have you not lost? The Guru says:

"Those who ever serve Har become One with Him. Forever blessed are they who meditate on Har. Servant Nanak is a sacrifice to them. Being in love with Har forever is an infinite treasure, beyond measure."

When you feel that you have lost so much, that is your Guru forcing you to turn towards Him. Where else can you turn? This is the only relationship that lasts. Now it is time to deepen your relationship with God and Guru. You cannot do that through feeling sorry for yourself or feeling that you are a victim, or feeling hopeless. You can do that by laying your pain and sorrows at Babaji's charan and giving it to him. All of it. Let it go. Surrender completely. Let Him arrange your affairs. Concentrate on doing seva and developing your own spiritual discipline. There is only one thing that will carry you through every circumstance and every tragedy and that is your own discipline.

I send you much love and may Guru Ji bless you to live in His protection at His divine lotus feet.


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Thanks for your response.I will try my best to follow what you said.Thanks again.

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