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Banging Head on a Brick Wall

asked 2014-03-18 03:49:05 -0600

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How can you personally determinine if a relationship does not work? I feel I'm banging my head against a brickwall. Is it possible that some 'relationships' does not work? Is it possible that WaheGuru is trying leading me..out? Because I feel like I'm constantly abused and beaten up and I feel like that it's because of this 'relationship'. It's doing more harm, then good cause to me. It's like standing in the way of Union between God and me. I feel like it's not giving enough to carry on and on the other hand I feel like it's probably better if I would try so much more then I could maybe do better! It's sad.. What should I do?

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answered 2014-03-20 07:25:50 -0600

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Mann kee matt tyago santon ...ehaa baat katthaini

Mann apne te bura mitaana , pekhe sagal srisht saajna

Got to read this snippet somewhere : 'Forgiveness is the best give you could give to yourself'

try to give your self this gift

On Relationship - I understand what you are talking about and sometimes the pressures and pain would seem insurmountable .... remember you an not put out a fire with more fire ... you'll need the nirmal gunn of water to do that -- figure it out

On ' It's like standing in the way of Union between God and me ' - It would definitely seem so ...and not only now ...every time we feel suppressed or deprived of what we want to do individually/as a sangat ...this feeling will raise its head ... do remember ... nothing and any point stands between you and god - it is only I who would like to look at it that way .... try to not get consumed by such thoughts and look more clearly ... you'll find that it is only you that is standing between yourself an god and nothing else ....

Hope that helps

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