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Don't want to lose this women? Any help?

asked 2012-08-25 22:35:44 -0600

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Hi, sorry my last post was too long, I went into too much detail. I'm going to re-post my problem, so I basically moved to Alberta from BC couple of months ago and met this girl I am really into. I met her at her work place and we ended up exchanging contact information. She was really into me to as well, we had talked for about a month, had some laughs, some serious convo's and then there some things we didn't agree with but at the end of the day I feel like she is the type of girl I am into. After a month every thing changed, her vibe changed, we only talked about once a week, she wouldn't txt me her self or call me anymore. I felt very blessed to have her in my life, for the first time in my life I met somebody I was into who was into me as well. It's been so long since I've met a women in my life who I could talk to. I feel so very lonely and isolated, sometimes I cry to my self. I don't know what turned her off about me, its been over a month since we've talked, I really wanted to know this women on a deeper level. I've had a lot of insecurities as a kid/teenage growing up, and Sikhi has really made me into a stronger person, but now I feel insecure again. All I know is this girl was into me and now she isn't. I don't want to lose her out of my life, I go to the Gurdwara everyday, try to recite half of Sukhimani sahib each day, about 5-6 chaupai sahibs. I just pray to lord waheguru that may he bring this women back into my life. I would also like to recite shabads, can anyone suggest any shabads to me I can chant/recite specific to love & this prayer? Satnam.

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I think she is clearly signalling she doesn't want to talk to you. The more you go after her, more she will avoid you. I think you should do what she 'wants' you to do :) PS: Chopai Sahib and Sukhmani Sahib are supposed to help you meet Lord, not solve your worldly problems. All the best.

kanwaljit.singh gravatar imagekanwaljit.singh ( 2012-08-26 21:07:11 -0600 )edit

I agree, Guru ki Bani is not a spell its words from God that are ment to waken us from our sleep that we call life.

PeaceHappinessSikhism gravatar imagePeaceHappinessSikhism ( 2012-10-24 06:13:59 -0600 )edit

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answered 2012-08-26 14:23:01 -0600

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  • Dude, Can i be honest? Brother to brother. What the hell is wrong with you homie. You Chasing now, bro. Forget it. If you chase maya it will chew you and spit you out like it never happened.
  • Once you got a good job with Maharaj's kirpa and ask your local Granthi singh to find you a gursikh bride and you yourself are not a kurehtia and are doing your Nitnem mornign and evening, Everything will fall into place. Trust me.
  • I dont wanna say anymore, i am just disgusted your chasing girls bro. Like what are you thinking. Be great in school and get a good job, so that you have a better family life. Your going at this backwards. If not this bibi then someother gursikh bibi, who cares as along as she is gursikh. Bro, I am assuming your Gursikh.


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