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asked 2019-05-23 06:23:12 -0600

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updated 2019-05-24 22:11:51 -0600


I'm 23 years old and live in canada. Long story short. I feel in love with a guy who recently moved to canada and was a pr. Things were working absolutely fine between us like ko fights nothing. One days he told me that his old gf is back and he wants to give her a chance. We broke up. I was broken by that time . Did alot of path ND ardasan and later on I came across that they was double dating both of us while she was in india. He always wanted her to move to canada but later on when she moved here he realized that he still love me.

They r in live in together, things are working on and off between them. Sometimes he comes to me by saying that he don't want to be with her and then later they would decide that they want to give each other another Chance. At this point I'm feeling like a toy.

I'm loosing it faith, trust and hope in god. I'm going through all this from almost 3 months and don't have the courage to continue it anymore I feel like giving up on live . I want help to over come him, and all this thing.

Is there any way if I can still get him back else how can I overcome him?

What should I do? What path should I do? God is actually there to her?

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answered 2019-05-28 11:19:37 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

updated 2019-05-28 11:21:44 -0600

It is a gradual process to release him. It takes some time. Part of it is processing with your girlfriends, etc., whom you can be safe, relaxed and speak freely. Part of it is focusing on other activities, interests, and part of it is giving yourself over to Seva as much as you can. If you don't have relations with him, time will do the healing. It's simply overcoming an attachment and that takes work. What kind of healthy relationship has one partner getting whatever he wants when he wants it and the other partner suffering? That is not the relationship you want. In any lasting relationship there must be commitment. You clearly do not have that in this relationship.

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