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It is a gradual process to release him. It takes some time. Part of it is processing with your girlfriends, etc., whom you can be relaxed and speak freely with. Part of it is focusing on other activities, interests, and part of it is giving yourself over to Seva as much as you can. If you don't have relations with him, time will do the healing. It's simply overcoming an attachment and that takes work. What kind of healthy relationship has one partner getting whatever he wants when he wants it and the other partner suffering? That is not the relationship you want. In any lasting relationship there must be comittment. You clearly do not have that in this relationship.

It is a gradual process to release him. It takes some time. Part of it is processing with your girlfriends, etc., whom you can be safe, relaxed and speak freely with. freely. Part of it is focusing on other activities, interests, and part of it is giving yourself over to Seva as much as you can. If you don't have relations with him, time will do the healing. It's simply overcoming an attachment and that takes work. What kind of healthy relationship has one partner getting whatever he wants when he wants it and the other partner suffering? That is not the relationship you want. In any lasting relationship there must be comittment. commitment. You clearly do not have that in this relationship.