Emotional attachment to friend

answered 2017-03-12 03:15:31 -0500

Not at all Punjabi
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Not only you but most of us are emotional human beings and my perception is if a person is not emotional then there is something seriously wrong with him/her. We can advise our friends as to what we think is morally right but we cannot change them and even if your friends do understand as to what you are saying is correct, it will take a long time for them to transform themselves, so stop worrying about your friends and colleagues.

It's impossible for a person to change his/her drinking habits, his/her sexual activities, his/her lifestyle in a day Though it's our ethical obligation to give correct advise to our friends but do not expect a sudden change and even there is a possibility that they might not change at all. Keep doing Ardas and Simran of Dhan Guru Nanak.

answered 2017-03-13 11:14:28 -0500

Guruka Singh
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Your feelings are natural. Everyone has a longing to belong. Everyone needs love and intimacy. When you stick to your values and never compromise them for benefits, then the world will move around you and you will naturally have new companions and the old ones will fall away. That's what happens when you have a deep commitment to spiritual values in your life. It's not that you reject anyone, nor do they outrightly reject you, it's just that you gravitate towards people who up-level you, support you, inspire you and never judge you. It's a natural process. That's how Sadhsangat forms. Never cling to a relationship because you want something or feel that you need something from the other person. Those relationships will not last. Rather be true to yourself, stay open-hearted and go out and be with and serve others. Then like-minded people will naturally gravitate towards you.