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Your feelings are natural. Everyone has a longing to belong. Everyone needs love and intimacy. When you stick to your values and never compromise them for benefits, then the world will move around you and you will naturally have new companions and the old ones will fall away. That's what happens when you have a deep commitment to spiritual values in your life. It's not that you reject anyone, nor do they outrightly reject you, it's just that you gravitate towards people who up-level you, support you, inspire you and never judge you. It's a natural process. That's how Sadhsangat forms. Never cling to a relationship because you want something or feel that you need something from the other person. Those relationships will not last. Rather be true to yourself, stay open-hearted and go out and be with and serve others. Then like-minded people will naturally gravitate towards you.