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how to get rid of all this dissapointing situations

asked 2014-01-02 22:02:19 -0600

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Satshri akal ji... sir this is the 3rd month I have been looking up to God..n asking for my wellness..suddenly so many things has happened to me n my family..allergy..lack of vit-D..increasing stone problem..its soo dissapointing..i even think of killing myself...I don't know what bad i would have done that I am facing these problem..moreover my brother also needs me as its his 12th brother is too weak in his studies..m worried for him the same time it is affecting my studies too.even i want to study further..but can' mamma has undergone a biopsy few month back still she is incredibly performing her services towards everybody..she teaches n handle my problems..I don't want to be a burden on Mumma..papa is fighting for his pension..for 6 years..neither I am getting any job..I'hv even started doing path..if i will not get well soon how can i support Mumma papa & my brother.. plz tell me how to get rid of all these problems set the things right

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answered 2014-01-04 20:51:42 -0600

HarjeetSingh gravatar image

Most important life lesson Guru ji teaches us to:

hukam rajaaee chalanaa naanak likhiaa naal |1| O Nanak, it is written that you shall obey the Hukam of His Command, and walk in the Way of His Will. ||1||

hukamee likhai sir laekh vin kalam masavaaneeai | He writes the inscription of His Hukam on the foreheads of all, without pen or ink.

sir sir hoe nibaerr hukam chalaaeiaa | He judges each and every being; by the Hukam of His Command, He leads us on.

sohan khasamai paas hukam sidhaareeaa | She is beautiful in the Company of her Lord and Master; she walks in the Way of His Will.

hukamai andhar sabh ko baahar hukam n koe | Everyone is subject to His Command; no one is beyond His Command.

chinthaa thaa kee keejeeai jo anehonee hoe | People become anxious, when something unexpected happens.

eihu maarag sansaar ko naanak thir nehee koe |51| This is the way of the world, O Nanak; nothing is stable or permanent. ||51||

jo oupajiou so binas hai paro aaj kai kaal | Whatever has been created shall be destroyed; everyone shall perish, today or tomorrow.

kahu naanak karathae keeaa baathaa jo kish karanaa s kar rehiaa |2| Nanak speaks the stories of the Creator Lord; whatever He is to do, He does. ||2|| (Lord God never ask our permission or Discusses with us)

naanak har gun gaae lae shaadd sagal janjaal |52| O Nanak, sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord, and give up all other entanglements. ||52||

sathiguroo kaa oupadhaes sun thoo hovai thaerai naalae | Listen to the Teachings of the True Guru - these shall go along with you.

Nitneem Bani's must be recited Loudly and listen to it before 6am. Why this is happening with us. we have not done anything bad (no bad deeds in this life form) in this incarnation. We may not have done any that Bad Karam (Deeds) but in past incarnation, we may have done;

"but with very good Fortunate(Good Karam) we have found true Guru" anandh bhaeiaa maeree maaeae sathiguroo mai paaeiaa | I am in ecstasy, O my mother, for I have found my True Guru.

sathigur th paaeiaa sehaj saethee man vajeeaa vaadhaaeeaa | I have found the True Guru, with intuitive ease, and my mind vibrates with the music of bliss.

sunathae puneeth kehathae pavith sathigur rehiaa bharapoorae | Pure are the listeners, and pure are the speakers; the True Guru is all-pervading and permeating.

What is this Hukum; (Guru Angad dev ji said;) Things that are happened/happening are his Hukum (Command) That also includes Karma.

hukamae karam kamaavanae paeiai kirath firaao | According to the Lord's Command, people perform their actions; they wander around, driven by the karma of their past actions.

Gur ka Shabad kaatai koti karam ||3||1|| The Guru's Shabad eradicates millions of (past bad) Karma ||3||1||

We have the four perfect gifts from our Guru: Bani, Bana, Simran, and Seva, that provide four indomitable pillars, by which we align ...

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answered 2014-01-04 01:49:28 -0600

Princess Kaur gravatar image

thank you...your suggestion is soo valuable to me..I'll positively do all those things, you told me to do...I get your point is to be positive..and just let the time passes..but what to do with those frustrate people who are discouraging me..should I stay away from them..or..drag them into my peace world..would it works?..or I'll become all -ive..!??

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answered 2014-01-03 13:18:22 -0600

MR. SINGH gravatar image

Just, let the time spent, assuming the future to be good and impliment some practices as discussed below.

Continue to do path, and must you must start SEWA in gurudwara sahib if possible.

Develop yourself psychologically, sukh-dukh is a part of life. It is very tough to develop psychology upto that extent where, "JO nar dukh main dukh nahi manai", ANG 633

SEWA, SIMRAN, Listening to KATHA, Kirtan slowly Develops the Power of mind to face harsher than harshest situation.

Spent some time in reading spiritual books, especially JIVANIs of some saint, Gurus, whatever you want. Only solution to your problem is "enhance +ve energy".

Try to escape out of -ve elements.

If you are getting tired by performing religious practices all the day, just watch good movies. WATCH ONLY RECOMMENDED MOVIES, like LIFE OF PIE, War of worlds, The Secret (documentary), Religious movies(Sahid BABA DEEP SINGH G, CHOTE SAAHIBZAIDYAAN DI SAHIDI)

Songs like Alla k bande hasde (kailash Kher), etc.

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