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asked 2012-06-29 21:20:38 -0600

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updated 2012-09-20 10:56:27 -0600

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Sat Sri akal ji. My name is Darshan and I am 19 years old. I am currently living with my puwaji and her family in Canada. I am from Singapore. I was an amritdhari since 02/02/2012. Ever since I came to Canada it's been difficult to stay amritdhari and I have been trying my best. I accidently broke my Amrit a few weeks ago and I am trying to become a puri sikhni again. I stopped doing paath last month due to some problems and I have started doing my paath again. My parents have been jobless since October 2011. In December 2011 me and my family went for Yatra in Amritsar. We went all the gurdwaras in Amritsar and in tarn taran. We also went Bangla sahib and sis ganj gurdwara. All the gurdwara we went we didn't ask for anything. After the Yatra when we went back to Singapore I suddenly Amritchak I didn't know why. My mum n my friend told me its the bulawa from guru ji. I Amritchak and I got an admission in a college in Canada end of february. My dad was suppose to start work in Canada in June but every work he got almost gets finalized and everything suddenly goes to waste all hard work goes down the drain. Some work required my dad to shave of his beard but my dad refused that job. We are a gursikh family and want to stay as a gursikh family forever. After my dad refused this job my mum said we can try to do the job under her name. We are trying but my mum visa to come to Canada got rejected everything that we trying got rejected. Is all this happening because of me??3 weeks ago my aunts had a fight and all the blame was pushed to me despite not being my fault at all. My aunt shouted at me to get out of her house. Everything that's been going on is it because of me breaking my Amrit?? I am getting back into guru ji's way of life. I have started doing paath again and being vegetarian and everything again. I feel depressed I don't know what to do. Please help me??

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answered 2012-07-09 23:00:33 -0600

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In Canada nowadays, it is indeed hard to find jobs. Conflicts arises in everyone's life, but a true Gursikh has Guru ji's protection just like an umbrella protects you from rain. Find yourself. Look deep inside yourself and see on what path you want to go. You are a blessed soul because you got the blessing of Amrit, now you should realize the value of this precious gift. Slowly, all your problems will resolve when you get power and strength to uplift yourself and fight courageously!

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answered 2012-11-06 10:26:00 -0600

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Don't loose hope and faith, problems come in everyone's life. The point to understand is that whenever a person decides (when Guru SAhib ji does His kirpa) then maya tries hard to take control over us so that we don't follow Guru Ji's path. Only if a person understands that all these thoughts of blame and guilt are caused by maya so that we give up our effort towards Sikhi. Just like in an exam you are given questions of various levels, they are there for our good so we know our strengths and weaknesses. Similarly these kind of thoughts in our mind or if someone blames us is all maya.

so don't worry and continue to do your path and start doing naam simran even if it is as little as 5 minutes a day.

God bless you and we are all fighting the same don't loose hope...Gur Sahib ji mehar karan and bless us all...

God bless

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answered 2012-11-08 15:53:47 -0600

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updated 2012-11-08 15:54:30 -0600

Waheguru! Brother don't get depressed and please do not blame yourself. I know it's easier said than done but is blaming yourself really going to help?

Waheguru has something for everyone, if its meant to be it will come your way so don't blame yourself. These things are beyond your control so blaming yourself isn't going to help.

Have faith and he shall help you.

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