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Feeling disconnected - Loss of Faith

asked 2019-10-11 12:22:19 -0600

Bruninder200001 gravatar image

updated 2019-10-11 14:52:10 -0600

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Hello, i have been going to the gurudwara very regularly from the past two years. I have been asking god for only one thing, my soulmate. I even did so purkh paath 11 times for 40 days. I feel very disconnected with him because i feel my prayers are not being answered. I do a lot of paath and jodo ki seva as well. But babaji doesn’t respond to My one wish. My faith in him has declined very much. Now i dont feel like going to the gurudwara also. What should i do?

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answered 2019-10-11 15:08:38 -0600

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updated 2019-10-11 15:55:18 -0600

Asking for your soulmate? Where is your soul, your companion? You are looking for a soulmate. Are you looking for your soul? Are you are looking for yourself? Are you identifying with your own identity? If you have not found your soul, why are you looking for a soulmate? You want to mate, go ahead and mate. But don't blame it on the soul. If you find your soul, that experience is very wonderful. All desires will leave.

Gurdwara is the gate of the Guru. When you walk in, you will leave your ego outside. It doesn't matter what you feel. You come in and you are sitting among all, and if you are sitting under the guidance of the infinite, that gives you a automatic pattern to be something higher than you.

Are you Guruji's daughter? It is not a matter of faith. It is a matter of knowing. If you know that you are Guruji's daughter, then what is the problem? Do not fathers take care of their daughters?

Ask Babaji for one thing: to find your own soul and to serve Him. That's all you need. If you are to have a partner in this lifetime, Guruji is already arranging it. There's nothing you have to do.

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The significance of so purkh paath is that it will help you in attracting your soulmate. Then what’s the use of it

Bruninder200001 gravatar imageBruninder200001 ( 2019-10-11 15:39:32 -0600 )edit

Having done Sopurkh paath for 40 days, relax and let the result be delivered to you. Patience pays.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2019-10-11 15:56:28 -0600 )edit

I have had patience since two years. I have cried in the gurudwara while doing seva so many times. While saying my ardasss i have cried so many times. But babaji doesn’t seem to care. I also believe that he is my father but then a father can never see his daughter crying. Thats why im losing faith

Bruninder200001 gravatar imageBruninder200001 ( 2019-10-11 16:52:02 -0600 )edit

A spiritual father knows the heart of his daughter.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2019-10-14 12:21:40 -0600 )edit

answered 2019-10-11 15:19:43 -0600

teraBanda gravatar image

Dheere Dheere Re Mana, Dheere Sub Kucch Hoye Mali Seenche So Ghara, Ritu Aaye Phal Hoye - Kabir

Every event happens at its destined time, No matter how much the gardener waters the plant, only when the season arrives, the plant will bear fruit

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Whats the use of paath then if whatever is supposed to happen will happen

Bruninder200001 gravatar imageBruninder200001 ( 2019-10-11 15:38:56 -0600 )edit

the use of paath is to keep you mentally stable till it happens, stress and anxiety is to humans, like rust is to iron

teraBanda gravatar imageteraBanda ( 2019-10-11 15:50:32 -0600 )edit

The correct answer to your comment is " you are not doing paath with your own will, something is forcing you to paath"

teraBanda gravatar imageteraBanda ( 2019-10-11 20:58:49 -0600 )edit

I did sopukrh paath to attract my soulmate which is what it’s meant to do. I read the success stories on the interesting and felt very bad that babaji didn’t do the same with me.

Bruninder200001 gravatar imageBruninder200001 ( 2019-10-12 03:54:22 -0600 )edit

When you find him, you will know why you had to wait

teraBanda gravatar imageteraBanda ( 2019-10-12 09:16:40 -0600 )edit

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