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asked 2019-06-04 12:38:05 -0500

Ahumann gravatar image

I have been super nice to people but not appreciated. I used to be a plain blunt. But nowadays,i care for what people feel. I be nice. And i think it's not worth it. Is it fine if i start being a plain blunt? A lil rude? I don't use bad words. I mean like,straight foward? Whenever I'm nice,people take advantage of it. Just because i hardly get mad. What do i do?

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answered 2019-06-04 13:13:12 -0500

teraBanda gravatar image

updated 2019-06-04 13:14:19 -0500

To quote Chanakya here

A person should not be too nice. Straight trees are cut first and nice people are screwed first. Read more at:

you will need to find an equilibrium between being too nice and bad, In my opinion its better to be too nice and get screwed instead of being bad.

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answered 2019-06-04 15:56:41 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Neither be nice nor be critical. What is needed is grace. Speak politely and gracefully. Speak honestly from your heart and always be polite. Your opinions do not matter (and neither do mine.) What matters is people. When you speak from your head, people may look at you, but they will not remember what you said. When you are you, clear, present and truthful, then people will hear you if you speak from your heart.

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