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Please help, im an amritdhari and did something really bad

asked 2016-06-18 12:33:47 -0500

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i am an amritdhari and i did soemthign reallly bad I have liked this guy for a 5 years and i told him that this Feb he said he did to, then on face time we did some bad stuff and showed each other our bodies, i know this is very bad and i stopped afterwards. yesterday i kissed him and let him touch me and then he kissed me again. i cam home and felt sick i knew that i should not have done this. I cried and asked maharaj to help not think about him and to forgive me. This mornign i cried while doign paath i really wont do this ever again, i betrayed maharaj, my family, and myself. how do i ask fro forgivenss, what do i do now,

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answered 2016-06-18 17:46:36 -0500

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh, hopefully this helps.

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answered 2016-06-30 03:39:22 -0500

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Sister- I will do ardaas for you. But as for your situation, please know that you have been forgiven. The deep remorse for your lustfulness causes Guru to forgive you of your sin. Now, karmic retribution may at some point occur, but, you have not betrayed the Guru as you have only temporarily fallen into the trap of Maya.

Maya is like a sticky substance, and bonds to a person especially well out of lust. The only reason Maya is "bad", is the vehicle by which our connection with Akal Purakh Vaheguru erodes. So, do continue the paath and simran and cleanse your soul and merge with the shabad. But as asking for forgiveness, you clearly are sorry for your actions and the Guru is ever so merciful. Truly you have been forgiven already, sister.

Blessings and prayers,

Bhagat Singh

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