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Mum cursed me alot

asked 2018-10-08 08:25:33 -0600

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updated 2018-10-08 12:28:10 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Today,my brother & i had a small fight in the morning before going to school. And then when we were waiting for the school bus,I stand like away from them cuz I was mad. And when the bus came,my mum looked away ( she didn't want to look at me ) And then i went to the bus. Once I came back,I complained and all and she was mad at me. Not my brother ( a lil bit ) . And then i heard my mum said "whatever you pray in gyrdwara also you won't get because you hurt your parents" And after that I cried alot because I actually went to gurdwara yesterday to pray & ask God to give me my period on time & also to make me do well in my exams. So I actually feel very scared because theres no chance for me to say sorry to my mum and also I'm scared if what my mum said is true ( it means , i won't get my period & I will not do well in my exams ) What should I do now?

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answered 2018-10-08 12:32:20 -0600

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You are the only one who can change things. Don't fight, drop your resentment. It doesn't matter what your mum does. No one can come between you and your Guru. Watch your words. Get yourself calm first and then don't react to what others say. When you speak, speak with grace and a loving heart. If you don't speak heart-to-heart then there will be no communication.

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answered 2018-10-08 20:16:49 -0600

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Agreed with Guruka Singh ji, and also behn ji, the world see whats you do and god sees why you do it. Remember, there is only ONE god and the world runs according to his hukam, not your mums' or anyone else's. Just study hard and that will get you good grades, and try to actually understand gurbani ji. It seems that you get scared about things and that's normal but nothing in this world is ours and so we shouldn't be afraid to lose it (as we don't own it). Thus, welcome bad things and good things equally, they're all coming according to our own actions, not by any punishments or blessings from god. He doesn't sit there and goes "oh this man isn't praying to me, so i'll punish him". No, his hukam is just "aape beej aape hi khao", "you reap what you sow". Take a deep breath, listen to gurbani, contemplate it and also try to talk to your mother calmly, she's not your enemy, I promise :). When you learn to kill your ego and understand that everyone has god within them, you wont be scared by anyone or hate anyone (i'm trying to learn that too). Bhul chuk muaf karni.

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