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Kissed him. WAHEGURU

asked 2018-08-26 10:25:03 -0600

Kaurrr. gravatar image

updated 2018-08-29 16:13:07 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

WJKK WJKF. I'm a Sikh. I pray ALOT. I HAD so much of confidence. And now,I'm socially active. I losed all of my confidence. On May,i got my period 21 days late. And I was very worried. My family masturbates in the toilet all the time. So I thought I got pregnant from sitting on the toilet seat that has sperm on it/used the bar soap that has sperm on it. I said to myself "Why shall I pray when I know I'm getting pregnant?" And after 21 days I got my period. I was happy and thanked God. That is how I lose my confidence. Till now,i get worried ONLY ABOUT GETTING PERIOD. Even if I get white discharge,I'll be like "Is this normal?/Gosh I'm pregnant". I don't know how to end this. And the main thing here is,i have a muslim ( Malay ) boyfriend. He's 19 and I'm 17. He told me that he wants a kiss and I said "Sure,not now but soon". And I met him the next day,he hugged me. So I was cool with hugging him. And he pulled me even closer and kissed me. And I was like yeah why not. And I kissed him as well. I met him today,we hugged & kissed. And then,i was suddently thinking,waheguru I gonna hate me for this. Even if I try getting closer AGAIN to guru,guru wouldn't like it. I don't want God to hate me for this. I KISSED A MUSLIM GUY. Can kissing a guy and hugging him really thight get me pregnant?

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answered 2018-08-26 15:02:41 -0600

strongKaur gravatar image

When you are worried about late period, go to see a doctor. They can tell you what's normal and not, that's the point of a doctor. I think also educating yourself is important to know about how pregnancy happens especially when you have a boyfriend, obviously you need to gain some knowledge in that area. If you need to, Doctor can also help you with that part and maybe you need some counselling for this obsession so that's another reason to see the doctor. I'm worried that if you do not know about this education, you should not be in a relationship, especially if you are getting pressured from him and he's older. Youre young, maybe this is the time for you to focus on other things. Spend your time on meditating on God. Spend your time actually focused on your path

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answered 2018-08-27 04:29:04 -0600

ZOYA gravatar image

Kaurrr. I am so happy that you are having a Muslim boyfriend, you are an intelligent girl. You are a role model for all the Kaurs worldwide.

Kissing and hugging is a normal thing. You can become pregnant only if you had Sex with your BF.

If you are really into serious relationship with your Malay boyfriend then you must first make a habit to wear a hijab and start learning about Islam. If you like having fun and sex then it's o.k but if you wish to marry him then I am sure for him and his family, Islam is of prime importance.

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