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I am isolating myself

asked 2018-07-10 09:25:22 -0600

Kaurageous gravatar image

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

I am a college student studying in Delhi University. I have completed 2 years of college. I made many friends during this period. Guru ji also blessed me with a good sangat which brought me more closer to Maharaj. A lot of things have changed in my life but now I don't feel like talking to anybody often. I don't know whether its a good change or not. I have stopped socializing, I deactived all my social media accounts, I don't feel the urge to share my things with people. I feel like everyone is temporary, which is true. I don't want to get attached to them. I am not upset or depressed, I feel satisfied this way. But many of my friends now feel that I've cut off with them for god knows what reason, some think that I'm rude or egoistic because I don't start a conversation unless it is necessary. I also don't want to upset them or isolate them either. Whenever they plan an outing or something I avoid going with them. I better chose to stay at home or go to Gurdwara Sahib to do Sehaj path instead of wasting time wandering around. I don't know if what I am doing is right. Please give me suggestions about what should be done. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

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answered 2018-07-10 16:30:34 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki Fateh!

You get to choose who you share with, communicate with, hang out with, etc. If your heart is open to all, with malice towards none, then there is no problem. Others may draw conclusions, but that is their perception. As long as you don't shut people down, spend your time in harmony with what you know is right for you at this time. Your Sadhsangat will always be shown to you by Guru Ji. Just remain open and pay attention to the messages Guru Ji is sending you.

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