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Is love a bad thing?

asked 2016-08-01 21:07:29 -0600

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Hi, I belong to a gurusikh family. I love a boy but my mother don't like him but she is not even giving me any reason for not liking him. She just simply say that he is not good for you because of the society and status. Now she is saying that few pandits said that I will get into the company of a bad person. What to do? It's creating so much pressure on me that I wish to die. I pray 2 times a day but I am seeing no results from God. It's like I am having no hope of being with him but still I want to be with him.

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answered 2016-08-02 06:20:22 -0600

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updated 2016-08-02 06:23:44 -0600

Im copying my answer from

Now before we adress the issue of Manglik. Love may be well, but unlike what bollywood and hollywood tells us it is not the only thing that will sustain a healthy marriage. I recommend these videos for yo. Especially the 2nd "Having Relationships" in your case.

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YouTube - Where is my husband?

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Having Relationships - YouTube Video

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Can Sikhs have love marriages?

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The Magic & Fantasy of Love - YouTube Video

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Is having Girlfriend / Boyfriend allowed in Sikhi?

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Dating and Sikhi

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Relationships - How the Guru Helps Us

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My Relationship With The Guru

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Do not forget to ask the very same pandit on what the meaning of manglik is.

Why should we listen to people on the road who to marry when they can not lift themself up from the streets?

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Does being a manglik affect my future?

How should we remedy this? By listen to Shri Guru Granth Sahib!

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Freedom From Karma - YouTube Video

Good luck with everything.


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