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asked 2016-06-22 14:13:28 -0500

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updated 2016-06-23 13:33:55 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

i'm 25y old feeling all alone as my mom just passed away & dad was passed away like 11y ago. so, i'm alone wid my sisters who still r still studying. i've a bad luck from last 11 years idk what i should do, i'm hopeless, broken. Waheguru ji Pls help me out & sarbat da bhala kari

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answered 2016-06-22 15:20:33 -0500

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Sat Nam...having read your words just now, the first I felt to give you is a divine hug in the sense of you are always being in Company of God or WaheGuru. So, This challenge seems to me is a big Chance to conquer the mind, finding the Soul which is one's own light... You know I don't Need to know you, what I do know is that in the essence we all are one. Have you already read "Anand Sahib" in ambrosial hour, do you have experience with SGGS? Answer the question to your ownself....You want a Change to lightful times and development to see the light again, don't you,.. what do you feel about doing a first step into the commitment of giving your pain for you Mom the Chance to breath to this experience in Patience... In case that you understand German, there's a great book from Satya Singh which is called "Das Yogabuch vom Leben und vom Sterben" available through the Internet...very much recommanded..if you dont understand German check out with Satya Singh if there is a English Version...

I hope that my words are inspiring to you forthcoming actions ...I am sending you my thoughts of divine love and to infinity...


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Sat Nam, what I feel having forgotten to write is to offer my sympathy to you for your mother... Kind regards, Yves

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answered 2016-06-22 16:57:39 -0500

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Sorry for your loss Paji.

If you ever need to people to talk to:

Paji just keep doing Path/Simran hopefully slowly you feel chardi kala again.

Bul Chuk Maf

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answered 2016-06-24 01:21:21 -0500

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I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the grief that you must be feeling right now. Sometimes people encourage us to skip this part so I’m going to tell you- you are allowed to grieve and be sad right now. It's normal to go through that. And when you are ready to move past those feelings, remember that your sisters are still with you. You are their hope. You are their support, and you have them. I know you must feel alone, but you aren’t. God is inside you, Waheguru is our ultimate parents, and is watching over you. And it might take some time for you to be able to feel that but don’t give up. One day it will be better and the pain will lessen.

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