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Doing good is causing me problems

asked 2013-12-03 11:31:33 -0600

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I always try to do good and be nice to everyone around me but lately I am having problems because people are taking advantage of that thinking that I am being nice to them for some other reasons. Because of that I am being annoyed and sometimes harassed by them which makes me lose control. How can I deal with those people? And how can I make them back off without being a jerk?

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answered 2013-12-06 17:49:13 -0600

PritamSingh gravatar image

You sow what you reap. If you be nice to everyone you will get the benefits in the future (this life or the next ones). Those who take advantage of you, are only building up bad karma and they will have to pay for it. Try not to get mad, that is Krodh which leads to Ego. Leave them alone, do not do anything, because He controls everything and His laws run everything. He will take care of it all.

Forgive me for any mistakes,

Pritam Singh

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answered 2013-12-07 15:20:20 -0600

Lo K. B. gravatar image

Sat Nam,

Be kind, but don't allow yourself to be stepped on. People have the penchant to believe that if people are being kind, they have some sort of ulterior motive. You know in your heart you aren't trying to trick anybody. If it's a certain group of people, quietly let them know that you do not appreciate their harassment towards you. It's funny that, if you maintain your composure and don't lose your cool, they automatically stop and realize your true intentions. Then no fight ensues, and everyone returns to normal. Honestly, if you can, avoid them or distance yourself from them for a while. They're acting out of some source of confusion, which isn't your problem.

Be happy and know that you have a right to be happy, like everybody else, and stay composed. God bless you.

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answered 2014-03-24 14:00:29 -0600

Amretpal Gill gravatar image

Hello There we all have problems is life, life wouldn't be life if we didn't have problems, there has to be a reason. To get the spiritual aspect and heal back in to your own state of mind. It's all in mind and the way to erase those bad memories is be good due good things, and your going to see change. Pray every morning to god after shower and hope for a better day, not just for yourself but your family and others.

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answered 2014-03-28 08:56:50 -0600

jas15283 gravatar image

Let's put it this way

Suppose one is a tree...a very useful tree ...blooming into lots of fruits each season....As a tree one will see that as the fruits come and ripe, stones come towards it to knock the fruits off .. now here is the interesting part..should I as a tree stop bearing the fruits because I get stones for bearing them ?

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