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Relieve myself of stress, anxiety and bad luck

asked 2019-07-01 04:37:20 -0500

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updated 2019-07-01 10:51:41 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

I like to think of myself as a good Sikh, a good person and someone who comes across exactly as they want to be portrayed. However since getting married, I have suffered nothing but bad luck in every aspect of life. (Not saying the being married is the cause however since being married this is how my life has become, an uphill loosing battle in some cases).

What am I doing wrong? Is there Bani or a specific Paath I should be doing to help my personal life become more pleasant? I think of myself as a good person however I feel as if when I pray to God for the simplest of things such as happiness, I don't get it or almost get the opposite.

I fee as if things for me are going very wrong or just not my way since the last two years.

Any advise/help and guidance would be much appreciated.

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answered 2019-07-01 10:57:05 -0500

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Marriage changes everything. You have three karmas in your life: family karma (comes through your DNA,) karmas you incurred in a previous incarnation, and karmas you have incurred so far in this incarnation. Your spouse has her own karmas in the same way. When you are married, all the karmas are thrown into the pot of the marriage to be cooked therein. Now you have your karmas, your spouse's karmas, and the karmas you incur together in your marriage. Arent you glad that marriage is designed to cook the karmas? In order to do that, you must engage with the work, self-check yourself and do a steady sadhana (meditation, paath, pranayama, etc.) and the work of your marriage must be openly shared. The fact is, you don't have a personal life anymore. You have a married life. So the bottom line is this: It's not about you. Serve your spouse and serve your marriage and forget about your self. Take care of others and let God take care of you.

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