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asked 2018-10-07 17:59:19 -0600

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updated 2018-10-08 12:27:17 -0600

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki Fateh. I am in desperate need of help. I am writing this on behalf of my brother. He is in a great depression. Until January of this year he had a happy family with two children. But in January he found out that his wife is cheating on him over a Muslim boy who is 6 years younger to her. Once my brother found out about her when she started planning to kill him instead of divorce. She planned to give him sleeping pills(will say that he committed suicide because his business partner also cheated him), or blood pressure medicine so that he would die with the heart attack. We found out this because Waheguru Ji's blessings were with us and we hired the detective and he gave us the report and audio recording of this planning. My brother is in big depression since then. He is not able to do any work his children are staying with him and he wanted to commit suicide. We are trying to help him and bring him out of this depression but every day is a new challenge for us. My younger brother (her devar) caught her with that Muslim boy so take revenge from him she is also accusing him of wrong. His life is also upside down. My father is 70+ I have to hear hi cry every day. My mother was hospitalized last month for the stress. Me being a sister is trying my best to support him financially but my hands are also tied & don’t have enough funds to support them for too long. We have a case in the court but judges only give dates no one actually wants to see the proofs. I am seeking help for him. Can someone please help them, save their life. Sponsor them and kids to USA or Canada. I live in Canada. I tried a couple of contacts but everyone is asking for lakhs of rupess which we don't have. So I thought I will seek help from Guru ghar. Is their anyone to save my brother's life. Please keep his name confidential. You can email me on this email. Thanks and regards

Hopeful sister

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He seems to be a victim of Love jihaad.

needhelp gravatar imageneedhelp ( 2018-10-07 18:11:41 -0600 )edit

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answered 2018-10-07 20:19:00 -0600

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Waheguru jio, I hope that you and your family maintain the strength you're carrying right now. At this time and always, its best to accept God's bhaana, and encourage your brother to step out of the "attachment" or victim phase, as guru ji has told us that no one is ours in this world. She will reap what she's sowing. Take him to gurudwara and ask him to spend some time with the granthi singh there and understand more about gurbani. Its definitely a tough time, but hey we have guru ji who will never leave us. Also, try to get in touch with khalsa aid, perhaps they will able to help. Bhul Chuk Muaf.

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Thank you for your kind words. I sent an email to Sikh Aid. I hope Waheguru ji will choose someone to help him and his kids in this situation.

needhelp gravatar imageneedhelp ( 2018-10-08 06:47:31 -0600 )edit

Great. Waheguru mehr karn.

Tryingtobasikh gravatar imageTryingtobasikh ( 2018-10-08 22:34:20 -0600 )edit

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