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asked 2018-02-05 11:05:52 -0600

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updated 2018-02-08 11:01:32 -0600

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SSA ..I am facing a huge problem and it makes me scared every time and I get anxious.i am an teenager and I see children of my age indulged in relationships.i have now become so different than I was way back. I don't like fake people at all and that is the reason I try to make all my relations strong but sometimes I feel lonely because I try to make things better but it ends up hurting me . I don't share my these kind of problems with anyone not even my best friend and now I have become more sensitive. I really want to become a good person but having talk to my friends I sometimes feel that they have different perceptions than me . They want to make boyfriend/girlfriend but recently I had faced a problem. The person whom I loved left me ...Just two days ago he had his first anniversary with his girlfriend. He left me because he didn't want to break the trust of that girl. Ik that he respects me a lot and all this I got to know just 2 days ago . I told him everything like these kinds of problems and he always helped me now whenever I feel someone to listen to me I find I just want to say that yes I want to become a good person but people around me make me feel that I am too different I mean I have no interest to come into a relationship that is fake . I want someone to love me for what my soul is. But I have made a decision that I'll not come into relationship cause I don't want to go through all those heartbreaks . In short I feel that I am separate Ed out from everyone ..They are different than me . But I don't want to stay alone and I don't want people to abandon me Pls tell me what should I do

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I didn't know that he has a girlfriend

Ann gravatar imageAnn ( 2018-02-05 13:47:00 -0600 )edit

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answered 2018-02-06 12:02:22 -0600

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updated 2018-02-06 12:13:11 -0600

Ann - First, stop and take a few deep breaths and relax. Yes, there are what you call "fake people" everywhere. They are not so much fake, as people who are stuck in their ego-centered state and have come to believe so strongly in their own persona that all they want to do is feed that persona to build it and make it stronger, even to the extent of using others for their own ends. You say, "I want someone to love me for what my soul is." Well, that's exactly it. Be in relationship to your own soul. Love it. Feed it. Nurture it. When the time is right, Guru Ji will bring you the soul who recognizes your soul. Until then, never compromise your values for perceived benefits.

Blessed is my soul which is free.

Luckily it has no belly, Neither it is dry nor wet, Neither it is happy nor it sweats.

It has nothing to sell or buy. It has nothing to even try. I am lucky I have a soul. It goes everywhere and pays no toll.

Sometimes it is low, sometimes it is high, But it always moves on the turnpike. It is educated, but it reads no signs. What a wonderful soul is mine!

I am lucky I do have a soul, Between the white and the black hole My soul knows the absolute, And it is my soul to which I salute.

I am happy each day I have a beautiful soul to play. It is a beautiful little soul of mine. It is radiant and has a wonderful shine.

It is my friend and playmate. My soul is my best soul-mate. I am lucky I do have a soul, It is the nucleus of the world as a whole.

Blessed is my soul, which is free.

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Thank-you so much for helping me and yes I really want to be a free and lovable soul

Ann gravatar imageAnn ( 2018-02-06 12:14:41 -0600 )edit

Simply do not relate to the fake persona. Every person has a soul. Relate to the soul of the person. You don't have to hang out with those people, but when Guru Ji brings them into your presence it's a learning opportunity. The only real connections are through the heart.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2018-07-31 15:18:11 -0600 )edit

answered 2018-07-31 05:13:38 -0600

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Yes, unable to differentiate between people. Almost every people face the same problem. They cannot recognize a person whether he/she is fake or not. Even I had a lot of experience with fake. Let me say the truth, my best friend was a fake person. Still I don’t know how to recognize a person. After an experience if we find a new people, we must face a trouble that should I trust them or not. Some people want us only for their needs. We will be like a use and throw for them. Dissertation writing service for a better experience on your academic works.

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