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How to forget a girl who broke your heart

asked 2018-09-27 12:16:11 -0600

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updated 2018-10-01 17:29:01 -0600

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How to forget a girl who broke your heart

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answered 2018-09-27 21:21:41 -0600

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updated 2018-09-27 21:23:35 -0600

That's a hard one. A lot of people say its time, but I don't think its time but more acceptance. Personally I never forgot the guy who broke my heart because he meant a lot to me and I realized that perhaps the goal wasn't to forget. He played a big role in my life and who I am so I wouldnt want to forget that. I think what has helped me the most was acceptance of Waheguru's Hukam and realization that whatever happened was just the way it was supposed to be...that perhaps our paths were meant to come together and then move apart again. The immediate experience of the sadness and the pain will get better and will not last forever, just remember that. Try to take care of yourself and if you can journal your thoughts and feelings so you can let some of that emotion be released. Console yourself with words from Gurbani. I immersed myself in it and it helped so much. Do ardas, and listen to and understand the Hukamnama you get.

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Thanks ji ! I will try to do what you have suggested but I totally fail to understand why did she commit me and why did she express her love to me every other day when we use to talk if she had to break the relationship. Please help me to understand. Thanks !!

ASB gravatar imageASB ( 2018-09-28 10:38:49 -0600 )edit

It isnt a matter of rationalizing why she made that decision, it will drive you crazy to imagine. Sometimes its not about you but about circumstances. Is it possible to approach her sometime to get some closure around the breakup?

strongKaur gravatar imagestrongKaur ( 2018-09-29 01:30:01 -0600 )edit

if not then it must be accepted that it is unknown and that's what she needed in her life at that time.

strongKaur gravatar imagestrongKaur ( 2018-09-29 01:31:32 -0600 )edit

Will any paath or Ardas help to change her mind, if I do so purakh paath or any other paath or Ardas can it change her mind. Thanks !!

ASB gravatar imageASB ( 2018-10-01 00:07:09 -0600 )edit

Change her mind in the sense... can she come back

ASB gravatar imageASB ( 2018-10-01 04:39:21 -0600 )edit

answered 2018-10-06 09:18:55 -0600

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added to my last comment: i don't think you should do any pray or Paath to bring her back, that would be a wastage, if you want to pray and Paath then do that for yourself. you deserve a better person in your life who can stand by you in every situation & not the person who leave you for no reason or due to some stupid reasons.

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