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asked 2017-12-15 04:20:43 -0600

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updated 2017-12-15 10:11:38 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

hello i am facing a lot of trouble. i am meeting a series of guys for marriage that i have now become lost completely. i dont know how to come of the situaton. i dont know where is my place where do i belong who am i supposed to be with. i have become very lost. please help.

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answered 2017-12-17 04:38:31 -0600

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Harpreet Ji it is perfectly natural for you to feel upset and hurt over the guy who left you however you should not let one person affect your confidence. Marriage is supposed to help both you and your partner form a partnership in which you help each other become closer to God.

If you still feel confused, instead of seeing so many people take your time with the process. Try and see the mannerisms and the way in which individuals act and behave towards you and others around you. I think that may bring about a greater indication of a person who is kind and genuine. Try and relax and take your time, like Guruka Ji said Guru Ji will sort things out for you.

Guru Arjan Dev (724)

‘Oh Individual, Why do you worry? The One who created you is taking care of you.’

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nice message HKSingh! I agree. Taking time, knowing oneself, and being patient are important in this process. I'm sorry to hear about your broken trust Harpreet. Don't worry, when it is the right time and setting for you, things will work out.

strongKaur gravatar imagestrongKaur ( 2017-12-18 00:01:41 -0600 )edit

at one time or another we all ask ourselves whether we can trust again, and eventually we do find it within ourselves to do so. in my case, i found that just having trust in God, and faith really build trust in all other relationships, because all realationships are really with God in each person

strongKaur gravatar imagestrongKaur ( 2017-12-18 00:04:24 -0600 )edit

answered 2017-12-15 10:15:37 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Harpreet Ji - The answer lies within you. Not outside. Become aware of your own soul. Mathe Tek and tell Guru Ji, "Help me come closer to you." Work on yourself to come deeper into your own purity, grace, courage and strength. You are not a pawn in your parents' game. You are you. You belong to your own soul and to your Guru. Breathe deep. Relax. Don't panic. Guru Ji will sort things for you if you let him.

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answered 2017-12-15 22:13:18 -0600

harpreet gravatar image

guruka ji thank you for the answer. But in my heart i liked somebody and i thought was going to marry him. But the guy went off with somebody else. Since then i have started panicking and broken into a series of flings. i canot trust anybody anymore.

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I agree. That is why you must turn inwards at this time.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2017-12-18 10:27:41 -0600 )edit

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