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A mistake or god's will?

asked 2016-12-27 11:45:53 -0600

Beloved princess of god gravatar image

Waheguru ji ka khalsa ,waheguru ji ki fateh... Actually i have a guilt for rejecting a guy for his appearance who was good by heart (which i realised in recent few days) and now he is married.... The family was good by nature and heart ....but when i met the boy i did nt feel anything (as mine is the case of arrange marriage)...ignorantly i hurted him by saying no (a mistake)...he kept a chaliya for me i was nt ready to say yes to him at that time may be bcs i was not ready for marriage , they responded that the girl is arrogant(even i dnt know is it so)....but now i dnt know why these days everytime his thought is coming to my mind and i am also facing problems in my marriage (delay)... I confessed to god in my prayers for hurting still the guilt is there....what should i do ? Was it God's will that we were not meant to be together or i am responsible that i lost an opportunity it really my guilt or my situation(delay in marriage) that is making me to think so ? I am not able to figure it out...

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answered 2016-12-27 12:56:49 -0600

Akalisingh788 gravatar image

Wjkk wjkf Most likely it's your karams and it's gods will. Don't worry do Ardas, keep reading gurbani do Path like dukhbhanjani Sahib sukhmani Sahib Sehaj path and Sankat mochan shabads. Waheguru will fix everything keep your faith in him

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thaank you soo much for taking out time to amswer this ques ...i hope waheguru ji shows me the right path ...

Beloved princess of god gravatar imageBeloved princess of god ( 2016-12-31 06:16:45 -0600 )edit

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