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Me and my partner love each other a lot and we cant live without each other. his parents are amritdhari, they refuse to accept me because i am divorced. my previous marriage lasted only 3 months and i am not here to blame anyone. I am ready to share all details phone numbers address everything of my previous inlaws. i even introduced my current partner to some of my x-husband's relatives. i have been an open book and since the very first day i told him the truth and he told the whole truth to his family. had we hidden the reality from his father, he may have agreed. but that'd be cheating them. can someone pls advise me how to get his dad to agree. we are both sikhs. the only problem is my divorce..... that was something beyond my control and to be fair i can only say one thing that both families and me and my x-husband were wrong not just me. why am i being penalized? please please help me .... i have 100% faith in waheguru ji but i am scared to lose him.... i dont wanna lose my current partner... please help me.

Me and my partner love each other a lot and we cant live without each other. his parents are amritdhari, they refuse to accept me because i am divorced. my previous marriage lasted only 3 months and i am not here to blame anyone. I am ready to share all details phone numbers address everything of my previous inlaws. i even introduced my current partner to some of my x-husband's relatives. i have been an open book and since the very first day i told him the truth and he told the whole truth to his family. had we hidden the reality from his father, he may have agreed. but that'd be cheating them. can someone pls advise me how to get his dad to agree. we are both sikhs. the only problem is my divorce..... that was something beyond my control and to be fair i can only say one thing that both families and me and my x-husband were wrong not just me. why am i being penalized? please please help me .... i have 100% faith in waheguru ji but i am scared to lose him.... i dont wanna lose my current partner... please help me.