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asked 2016-07-04 12:56:18 -0500

anonymous user


updated 2016-07-12 13:01:49 -0500

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Me and my partner love each other a lot and we cant live without each other. his parents are amritdhari, they refuse to accept me because i am divorced. my previous marriage lasted only 3 months and i am not here to blame anyone. I am ready to share all details phone numbers address everything of my previous inlaws. i even introduced my current partner to some of my x-husband's relatives. i have been an open book and since the very first day i told him the truth and he told the whole truth to his family. had we hidden the reality from his father, he may have agreed. but that'd be cheating them. can someone pls advise me how to get his dad to agree. we are both sikhs. the only problem is my divorce..... that was something beyond my control and to be fair i can only say one thing that both families and me and my x-husband were wrong not just me. why am i being penalized? please please help me .... i have 100% faith in waheguru ji but i am scared to lose him.... i dont wanna lose my current partner... please help me.

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answered 2016-07-05 05:20:57 -0500

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updated 2016-07-14 13:20:21 -0500

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Well done for being truthful from the start.

Have you sat and talked with his parents? You should also get your parents to talk to each other maybe that might help.

You could take your partner and their parents to the Gurdwara and ask the granthi to do an ardaas and take a Hukamnama and see what Guru ji says. Have faith in Guru Ji and he will resolve all your problems. - Watch this

Please forgive me if i said anything wrong

Sat Sri Akaal

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gn gravatar imagegn ( 2016-07-14 13:20:35 -0500 )edit

Thanks Cloud

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answered 2016-07-07 01:16:36 -0500

Cloud gravatar image

Although it is good that you were open it seems like you are acting in a hurry just because you have to and that made his parents worried alot and giving his parents more information then they asked for. Almost as that your family is pressuring you and that may be hurting the process.

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