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Guruwala or not

asked 2014-06-07 09:35:20 -0500

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I am an Amritdhar Sikh and have been following the Rehat Maryda regularly. By Waheguru Ji's Bless I am doing all the Nitnem Banis ( Morning and Evening) everyday. This has been happening for good amount of months and Thanks Waheguru Ji for HIS blessings on me for this.

I understand after taking Amrit you become Guruwala and Guru is always Ang Sang with you wherever you go.

However, recently , I broken some of serious Rehat Maryda which I am regretting , but I continue to doing the Nitnem Banis ( morning and evening ) as I was doing before.By Babaji's Grace I did not stop Nitnem Banis.

My questions are : 1. Now that I have broken the Rehat Maryada ( serious Kurat ) done. Am I no longer Guruwala. Is Guru Gobind Singh ji my lno onger protector. 2. Do I have to take the Punishment ( Thankha ) as per Rehat by Panj Pyare to come back again as Guruwala which I fine to take. 3. Do I have to also take Amrit again to become Guruwala 4. And until I complete my Thankha & retake the amrit if answer to 3 question is Yes , do I have to remove my Kakars (expecially : Kripan and Kanga) . Others are intact with me ( Kesh , Kada and Kachera)which I do not want to remove at any cost. 5. My wife who is also Amrirdhari , does not keeps her hair covered especially while cooking becuase its too hot in kitchen . Is it fine?

Please advice.


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answered 2014-08-23 13:44:55 -0500

Bhagat Singh gravatar image

updated 2014-10-14 14:29:02 -0500

Simply I think you should just do ardaas and say how sorry you are. Only retake amrit sanchar if it was REALLY BAD like rape or something - otherwise do not worry about it - it is human nature to make mistakes. It is good you are concerned about this mistake for it shows that you are strong.

I hope this helped.

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answered 2014-08-24 14:31:33 -0500

mandeepsinghk gravatar image

God is super kind and shall always be.

There are two things whatever ur mind allows..

Have hundred percent faith in guru granth sahib jiio and take his asees by falling at his feet. Do bani simran and talk to him... He will talk back...

Or go to panch nd ask fr forgiveness and vision.

No matter what happens.. Dont take ur kakaar off.

Even if u feel guru sahib disowned u... Stick to ur kakkars witj love. .. Kind he always is.

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answered 2014-08-24 14:42:01 -0500

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Moderators: Extremely sorry for using two IDs for answering

Bhain ji should cover her kesh while cooking. I say this after observing gursikhs and their life styles..

And the answer to your first question is .. God is and shall always remain super kind. :D

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