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Will and How will Waheguru ji help me? [closed]

asked 2013-05-11 12:13:43 -0500

Jaskaran singh gravatar image

updated 2013-05-13 12:52:29 -0500

Nihang Gavinpal Singh Khalsa gravatar image

Well now my schooling is over and i m just making efforts for getting admission in top colleges to study engineering, my grandmother is praying for me, i m also praying regularly but i dont knw Y m getting a feeling of disappointment intentially, my dad wants me to make him feel proud and i also want to do that. will waheguruji help m in this and how ?????

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answered 2013-05-13 10:26:52 -0500

Maninder Pal Singh gravatar image

updated 2013-05-14 01:58:04 -0500

Piyare Jaskaran,

Still it is a long way to go in your life. At every step of life you will feel uncertainty and unsecure. Just think ! who is running this universe ! neither you, nor I. Then who? Obviously, it is the almighty waheguru. But it is strange that we all try to run it in our way. we wish that all our wishes be granted. This is the first and foremost reason of disappointment and depression. Is this the lesson we learn from Gurbani? No, not all. Guruji advises us to walk in accordance to the God's will( Hukam). " Hukme ander sab ko bahar hukam na koi". Instead of accepting what will happen, we try to fulfill our wishes. Though later on we may repent. These are very small lessons, but having big impact on our overall life. Believe GuruJi, nothing will go wrong. Try your best and leave the rest to Waheguru. Try this thing! Tell GuruJi that you will accept what ever the Waheguru's hukam will be and see how much peace you experience. Later on in life you need not to repent.

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It is too sad that you are thinking of committing suicide. A sikh needs to be always in "CHARDI KALA". No body can fulfill any other's desires. It is only God's will that prevails. Whatever you have got till today was almighty's gift. The family, friends etc. are only via media and not the source. The source is the Waheguru only. GuruJi says: "Dadda datta ek hai Sab ko Devan Har" ( There is only one giver in this universe, Who is giver for al of us.) Respect your parents but keep your faith in Guru jI. It is only our wavering mind that misleads us. Whenever you are possessed with the thought of suicide, start chanting paath of "CHUPAI SAHIB." Believe me Guru Ji are Ang sang and will definitely protect you from taking any undesirable step. Even if you feel the situation to be worse and cannot control yourself please give me a call at my cell no: 9855209344 or email me at [email protected].

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answered 2013-05-13 12:12:03 -0500

Jaskaran singh gravatar image

Thanx singh sahab, your answer made me feel good... i also want to tell that actually my parents had lot of expectations frm me, they want me study and work hard in a good college instead of stdying in a useless place. my elder bro is very weak in his studies, dat's y dey r having a hope frm me to feel dem proud.. they hav given m evrythng i want and if i m not able to fulfill their desires den i will not b able to forgive myself, i cn evem suicide. living in a middle class family in india surrounds u frm a lot of responsibilities. dats yy m soo tensed......

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answered 2013-07-23 07:42:18 -0500

gpsingh159 gravatar image

veerji waheguru ji kethe hain ji. please call for me also. guru pls aajao jio ji

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