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asked 2013-03-26 03:58:02 -0600

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I wanna know is it wrong to pray to become beautiful ??coz during my college days n stuff I usually used to very depressed...there was this guy who used to insult me n Mock me about my looks...not only him there were some other ppl too....I can nvr forget those days...

Is it wrong to pray for looks ??

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answered 2013-03-27 04:28:27 -0600

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updated 2013-04-01 09:42:11 -0600

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fathe!

Oh gosh join the club sista. People have said at school that I'm ugly but I can tell you right now that I think that I am very beautiful. I'm not just saying that cause I think that beauty is on the inside I'm saying that because I'm a daughter of Guru Gobind Singh I wear a turban and I can tell you this that i am beautiful because of that.

I'm sooooo thankful for the fact that I do wear a turban. People used to bully me not because I was ugly but because i was different. because I wore a turban and my turban makes me look beautiful.

I never blamed it on my turban instead I though about why i wore it. because I was different and I was a daughter of a king.

From than on I refused to even use lip moisturisers! I don't wear make up or jewellery or earrings.

I go by this line 'toon mera gehena.' the only jewellery that you are to have on is the love for GOD.

My friend told me that her mum complemented me on that fact that I was simple and that made me look beautiful.

But don't get me wrong this beauty that I'm talking about is the beauty that I always had yet I never noticed until i realised that looks were nothing. God made me beautiful like he made you beautiful and every creation.

You my friend are B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L. No sista of mine is ugly. No one is ugly. really saying someone is ugly is like saying God is ugly. God is wonderful and amazing.

I hope that I helped. :)

Bhool chuck muaf

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fathe!

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you are filled with good ness sister

Nihang Gavinpal Singh Khalsa gravatar imageNihang Gavinpal Singh Khalsa ( 2013-03-28 12:26:40 -0600 )edit

Thank you but that goodness is all kirpa from Waheguru.

new user gravatar imagenew user ( 2013-04-01 09:42:55 -0600 )edit

answered 2013-03-26 12:34:23 -0600

Nihang Gavinpal Singh Khalsa gravatar image

My friend don't be ac fool you are all ready beautifull those who bullied you were and will for ever more be ugly if you dress in the attire of a real gursikh you are never ugly! My. Freind t rue beauty is internal not outside to be honest you can't. Be that ugly no one is. Praying to be beautifull well someone can do so if they wish internally but not externally god made you the way you have been made except this other wise it is vanity and attachment you are praying for which is the foolish part don't be a fool Khalsa fateh

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answered 2013-03-26 23:58:13 -0600

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updated 2013-03-27 00:02:28 -0600

I have got that alot in my school years! Everyone gets that. But.... you have a choice. Who do you want to please - the world, or Guru? This is the choice you have to make. In the court of the Lord, your accounts will be read. According to your choices you made in life, it will be determined at that time weather Guru Sahib is found standing beside you or not....

If you focus on becoming beautiful inside, trust me, you won't feel the need of outside "beauty"

Person that bullies you - Just like it is not a good idea to ask way to a person who has himself lost way... it is not a good idea to take opinions of manmukh to heart who are themselves lost in darkness!

Look at God, in his eyes.... you face without makeup, without doing eyebrows, without cosmetic creams or lipstic, without earrings and necklaces.... looks extremely beautiful to Waheguru.. the King of Kings!

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answered 2013-03-28 06:40:13 -0600

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you can be beautiful if you want BUT guru don't want good face instead a good heart.....if you are a sikh than doing ardaas for a good face is just like you are telling to guru sahib that you made me ugly, you done wrong to me ,you are a fool and i am a smart.....My lovingly, try to happy what god given to you otherwise you will hurt ...akallllll

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