are we as sikhs allowed to fall in love
is it wrong that I, a sikh girl, am in love with a sikh boy? It has no sexual reason behind it and we really wish to get married in the future.
is it wrong to love this boy?
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We're all human, and falling in love is a natural part of life. Just remember what your priorities are, and what your values are--your Guru always comes first, and hopefully this human relationship helps you strengthen that divine relationship. Also, always remember to make time for yourself, and stay in tune with the needs of your soul as well. Go with your gut-- if it feels right with your soul, it's probably the right decision. If it feels off, then don't be afraid to let go if that's what you need to do. Falling in love with someone with is a beautiful experience, and can help you strengthen your love for the Divine. Enjoy the experience, but always remember that first and foremost, you belong deeply to your True Self.
Without love there is nothing. The problem comes when love is exclusive rather than inclusive. Remember the wish to be married is quite different from being married, and the fantasy, though strong, is not reality. Marriage is soul-to-soul. it is a merger of souls. It is not about anything else but that. Marriage is the highest ashram of all. The work is hard. It is a crucible in which to grind the karmas of both partners.
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Asked: 2017-11-24 22:52:36 -0500
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