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I act like i am white

asked 2018-06-28 12:24:31 -0500

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updated 2018-07-02 12:55:06 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

I am not white but i have recently discovered that i act like a white person. And evreryone make fun of me.i think its all because of youtube and not studying for years. And not doing any work or anything. What should i do now ? I think my brain is not in my control i dont know maybe i dont do anything. I have become a really bad person with no respect or love for my parents. Thinking about sex and songs all the time. I dont know what to do. Nothing can change me or my situation. I act like i have autism and i am a crazy person too.

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answered 2018-06-29 02:38:48 -0500

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I can tell you are struggling with these features of yourself a lot. You have gotten some answers on other occasions, but they don’t seem to be resonating. So I’ll try to put things a different way maybe.

When the mind thinks about a problem over and over it seems to cloud over so much that you cannot think that there is a solution. Gurbani tells us that there is a solution to all problems. Gurbani is in fact healer to all problems, whether social, physical, emotional, mental, etc. we need to get your mind to stop obsessing on the problem and focus now on acting on the solution. If you keep reviewing the problem constantly, you will never move to the action stage. You need to make those changes now.

A good step is to visit the doctor. The will help you figure out if you do have a diagnosis, and then you can start to make a plan to treat it. Instead of thinking you are crazy or have some diagnosis, go and find out. Step 1 is to book the appointment. Being bullied is also something to see a counsellor about. “acting like a white person” is not a real thing. That’s people bullying you into saying you need to be a certain way to fit in.

Next step: You mentioned that you feel your brain is not under your control. Gurbani teaches us how to bring the mind from going in all different directions and focus that attention on God. That happens through Simran and spending time in sangat, listening to kirtan and doing sewa. This spiritual piece is extremely important for mental wellbeing. Thoughts about sex and songs are also managed through this spiritual way. So is the thoughts of not respecting your parents.

In terms of studying, someone else mentioned good time management strategies and going to Career and Student services for an appointment. That is an important step that can be taken for your schooling. You will need their help for the study habits.

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Thanks ! But ive become a bad and evil person . And i cant become a better person now. The way i act ,talk ,walk everything! It cant change . I think i should quit and go back to my home country .Because i know i cant and i can never study. I feel like i am a slut. I think god is like me.

Anonymousatheist7 gravatar imageAnonymousatheist7 ( 2018-06-29 18:49:35 -0500 )edit

good is as bad as me. That by just reading gurbani can change me and i am a very good person.I can never pray . I am thinking is really bad like a animal,ghost. My mom says i act like i am depressed.

Anonymousatheist7 gravatar imageAnonymousatheist7 ( 2018-06-29 18:51:44 -0500 )edit

Gurbani says “When you are under the power of sexual desire, anger and worldly attachment, or a greedy miser in love with your wealth; if you have committed the four great sins and other mistakes; even if you are a murderous fiend who has never taken the time to listen to sacred books...

strongKaur gravatar imagestrongKaur ( 2018-06-29 18:53:33 -0500 )edit

Even in gurudwara people laugh at me. I dont know why i am like this. Why ive become such a person. A disgrace to my family. I have no respect for my parents and god.

Anonymousatheist7 gravatar imageAnonymousatheist7 ( 2018-06-29 18:53:53 -0500 )edit

hymns and poetry -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, and contemplate Him, even for a moment, you shall be saved.” (Ang 70). Even a murderer is worthy of reaching God why not you? Anyone can change. I have seen this in real life. People's lives tranform.

strongKaur gravatar imagestrongKaur ( 2018-06-29 18:54:09 -0500 )edit

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