What is Sikhi?
I am a Hindu girl from Mauritius. I am interested in learning Sikhism. Also i love the personality of the Sardars. I started learning about Sikhi in Mauritius but online i became friend with a Sardar from U.K, he told me that you haven't learnt the right Sikhi in Mauritius, he taught me a different version of Sikhi but i was highly confused so i decided to go to Punjab to learn Sikhi.
On my arrival in Amritsar i met one Sikh religious scholar who taught me exactly the opposite of what i have learnt about Sikhi from the previous two Sikhs. In Amritsar itself i met yet another Sikh who told me that the scholar you met previously is actually a Pakistani agent in India who is hell bent on destroying Sikhi, he told me lots of Pakis have infiltrated in Punjab who have degraded Sikhi. He taught me yet another different version of Sikhi.
So, i thought of meeting the main head of the SGPC at Amritsar, when i went to his place, he blatantly asked me through his interlocutor, Do you know Punjabi. I replied No because i am a Hindu girl from Mauritius and then he told me it's very difficult for you to understand Sikhi, you first go and learn Punjabi and Gurmukhi.
I felt so dejected and even after spending so much time, energy as well as money i couldn't learn about Sikhi. Each and every Sikh i met blamed the other Sikhs, everyone was trying to dictate his own version of Sikhi. I came across ten different versions of Sikhi. Everybody gave me different format of Rehat Maryada.
Now, my question is why you Sikhs have so many different versions of Sikhi , why you guys don't have any one Standard format of Sikhi. why there is so much infighting within your own Panth. Why is Punjabi/Gurmukhi a must to learn Sikhi, whom to believe as to which Sikh is talking truth. What is exact Sikhi. and lastly, how to marry a Sardar?