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Trichotillomania, god answering prayers, personal question

asked 2017-06-22 18:00:08 -0600

Anonymous Kaur 2392 gravatar image

updated 2017-06-22 18:03:41 -0600

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru je ki fateh! I'm 14 nearly turning fifteen in sept. I have had trichotillomania since ages, like about since I was 10 ish. Now this is under control. I've pulled the front on my hair and it's now a really small fringe so I cover that. I pull my eyelashes and eyebrows. Ive been bullied all through years 7,8,9 and im not very social. I only have a few friends like 4 good ones that accept me not matter who i am but everyone considers them dumb, weired but im not (but they are my freinds). My main problem is pulling my eyebrows. Do you know any herbal treatments for that?

I know it sounds stupid but I can't control it, either I'm not thinking to or because I don't do paath or ardaas. The reason I don't do paath or ardaas is because I think it takes ages or never for my prayers to be answered. For example; in reality I wanted a brother because I'm the only child, so last year my mum was expecting and she only went to first trimester and got an ectopic pregnancy. That's what happened when I asked for a brother. Now I don't believe that my wishes or prayers will come true.

I would want to email someone that can help me with some sex related problems. I cannot talk about it on here because I think that I will be shamed and joked about on my character. Honestly the problems not very serious and I haven't done it yet but it's about some attractions and lust. I cannot share it here. Sorry Thanks Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh!

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answered 2017-07-16 00:54:06 -0600

bhavjeetkaur gravatar image

Take phosphatidyl serine, from sunflower lecithin, as a supplement. That will help with trich. I have it too. It takes a lot of behavior reconditioning, but the phosphatidyl serine helps calm you down. You can also try GABA as a supplement.

Do you have a mala? That nervous energy that makes me pull out my hair is the same I channel into my mala when chanting the Naam.

God will not take over for your physical abilities. You have to do what you can first, before your prayers can be considered.

After all, it is God's will that you breathe, that you wake up each morning. How can you even imagine something beyond the next breath?

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answered 2017-06-26 13:06:20 -0600

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updated 2017-06-28 10:57:13 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image


Your prayers will be answered regardless if you ask Guru ji, Guru ji knows your inner pain and wants.

Remeber Waheguru ain't meant to be like Santa, the whole point of this life is to merge with him and follow the path the Gurus have set.

For stuff on herbal treatment try this form

With things related to sex you can post as "anonymous" on many forums, including this one, but remember don't just give your email address out.

Bul chuk maf

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Wjkk wjkf I can't even post anonymously because I know if I open my mouth about it on here I will get a lot of hate comments, that's why I was hoping to chat with someone in private. I know that probably no one will say anything to me on here but I feel insecure sharing about something. Wjkk wjkf

Anonymous Kaur 2392 gravatar imageAnonymous Kaur 2392 ( 2017-07-01 18:42:02 -0600 )edit

If you would like to chat or talk privately, just email or message me on fb/skype. [email protected]

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2017-08-11 13:39:11 -0600 )edit

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