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How to Control feelings??

asked 2017-05-12 12:47:59 -0600

Gurmukh singh gravatar image

updated 2017-05-17 16:10:03 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Wjkk wjkf Actually i have no control on my feelings. I am getting attracted to a girl whome i saw in gurudwara sahib everyday. But i didnt talk to herand not wanted to do so. Bcoz it distracts me from spiritual path. Any shabad or specific lines from gurbani to control my feelings. Bhul chuk maaf krna ji

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Please help me as this situation eating me up from inside

Gurmukh singh gravatar imageGurmukh singh ( 2017-05-14 06:45:34 -0600 )edit

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answered 2017-05-15 13:25:33 -0600

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Can you not just go to a different Gurdwara?

Don't focus too much on these feelings, when they come ignore it otherwise you will be stuck in a cycle.

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answered 2017-05-16 10:16:31 -0600

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updated 2017-05-16 10:17:30 -0600

You can't control feelings, nor should you try. They are normal. If you didn't mean feelings, but rather, lustful thoughts, then you can control your thoughts. That's why we meditate every day.

It's normal to feel attracted to a girl. But you don't say that you actually know this girl. Have you talked to her? Our spiritual path is the path of garist ashram, householder's life. Our spiritual path is not to live alone and be celibate. You don't say how old you are, but if it is appropriate, you might actually talk to this girl and get to know each other better. Otherwise, take gn's advice and avoid being with her. Feelings are fine, but they can easily become obsessive, and then they are not fine.

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