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You can't control feelings, nor should you try. They are normal. If you didn't mean feelings, but rather, lustful thoughts, then you can control your thoughts. That's whay we meditate every day.

It's normal to feel attracted to a girl. But you don't say that you actually know this girl. Have you talked to her? Our spiritual path is the path of garist ashram, householder's life. Our spiritual path is not to live alone and be celibate. You don't say how old you are, but if it is appropriate, you might actually talk to this girl and get to know each other better. Otherwise, take gn's advice and avoid being with her. Feelings are fine, but they can easily become obsessive, and then they are not fine.

You can't control feelings, nor should you try. They are normal. If you didn't mean feelings, but rather, lustful thoughts, then you can control your thoughts. That's whay why we meditate every day.

It's normal to feel attracted to a girl. But you don't say that you actually know this girl. Have you talked to her? Our spiritual path is the path of garist ashram, householder's life. Our spiritual path is not to live alone and be celibate. You don't say how old you are, but if it is appropriate, you might actually talk to this girl and get to know each other better. Otherwise, take gn's advice and avoid being with her. Feelings are fine, but they can easily become obsessive, and then they are not fine.