Revision history [back]

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh,

So is the first problem is you are struggling with money, because you gave up your job when you became pregnant, and your parents-in-law are not helping you financially? If this is the case, then I understand your trouble because it does not seem easy to nuture an unborn child and have a job. If you are at your mum's house at the moment, does that mean you are okay and she is looking after you for food etc?

For solutions, if you put on a tape of Akhand paath in your house all day long (from Youtube) that is a very good way to start listening to Gurbani. Then you can get blessings from Maharaj and hopefully your situation will improve. You don't even have to listen, just play it in the house somewhere.

I am sorry to hear that you lost your daughter, if this is accurate to what you have said? It is not so good that on such a day your mum-in-law is saying bad things about your family. I wish you well that you can that this situation may improve for you and the nasty words may heal away and you can move on with your life.

Situation does not look so great, regarding you moving away from your husband and losing your things and staying with your mum. But it does not seem like you did much wrong, except 'one moment of anger' as you said. These things happen and we all make mistakes. So it is good to move on and be positive with your own life. There are still happy things for you to look forward to, like your new coming child that you are pregnant with.

If you can stay calm and kindly ask Guru Ji to arrange your affairs, then hopefully things can improve and the family relations can get healed. Guru Maharaj can work any miracle and can solve any trouble. Maybe this would mean mending things with your husband and getting things sorted so can be financially secure and not getting into arguments with your in-laws. If anything was missed my apologies, and anything questions are fine to be asked. Take care and good wishes for your family.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.