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SO HERE I AM TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHY DO SIKH MEN ARE CHEATING.

I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AS HE HAS ASKED ME TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND, HE IS A MARRIED MEN AND I JUST LOVE HIM SO MUCH. WE SEE EACH OTHER A LOT (WELL WHEN HE CAN GET OUT OF HIS HOUSE), WE MAKE LOVE LIKE ANY LOVER DOES, WE PRACTICE ORAL SEX, ANAL AND VAGINAL WE HAVE TOUCHED EACH OTHER IN EVERY FORM. I AM NOT A SIKH. ACTUALITY IN DON'T PRACTICE ANY RELIGION I DO BELIEVE IN GOD BUT THAT'S ABOUT IT, DON'T GO TO CHURCH ETHER. HE MAKES ME VERY HAPPY I LOVE HIM AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME TOO. EVEN THO HE WILL NEVER GET A DIVORCE I WILL LOVE HIM THAT WAY, BECAUSE I KNOW HE WILL ALWAYS BE MINE. HE HAS TOLD ME I HAVE BEEN THE ONLY GIRL HE HAS BEEN WITH BESIDES HES WIFE. AND I DO BELIEVE HIM. I HAVE QUESTION HIM IF WHAT WE ARE DOING IS RIGHT AND HE ALWAYS TELLS ME THE SAME THING 'IF GOD DIDN'T WANTED ME TO DO THESE WHY DID HE PUT ME IN YOUR PATH?' TO THAT I DON'T HAVE AN ANSWER IN I WISH SOMETIMES WE HAD MEET A LONG TIME AGO SO WE SHOULDN'T BE IN SIN. HE IS A BIG BIG BIG SIKH BECAUSE HE DOES EVERYTHING HES RELIGION TELLS HIM TO BE DONE, EXCEPT TO WHAT WE ARE DOING. I HAVE ASKED HIM IF HE FEELS LIKE HE HAS TO LET ME GO I WILL LET HIM GO BUT UNTIL HE TELLS ME TO, BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN THINKING A LOT ON HIS WIFE THAT SHE DON'T DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON AND ALSO IN THE CONSEQUENCES OF WHAT GOD MIGHT HAVE FOR US. WE HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT ME GETTING PREGNANT AND I AM MORE THEN HAPPY TO GIVE HIM A BABY BUT I AM ALSO AFRAID OF WHAT IS FAMILY MIGHT SAY AND WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN HIS CIRCLE OF WHAT INVOLVES HIS BELIEVES, HIS WIFE HIS PARENTS, HIS FRIENDS, ALL AF THAT INCLUDING GODS WILL. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT CAN BE THE CONSEQUENCES FOR HIM IF HIS RELIGION AND HIS PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT ME A TYPICAL WONDERING GIRL? AND IF IT IS TYPICAL FOR SIKH MEN TO CHEAT AND THERE WIFES? IN MY DEFENSE I HAVE TO SAY I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEARTH!!!

      THANK YOU FOR NOT JUDGING! AND FOR YOUR ANSWERS!

SO HERE So here i am trying to understand why do sikh men are cheating.

I AM TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHY DO SIKH MEN ARE CHEATING.have a boyfriend as he has asked me to be his girlfriend, he is a married men and i just love him so much. We see each other a lot (well when he can get out of his house), we make love like any lover does, we practice oral sex, anal and vaginal we have touched each other in every form.

I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AS HE HAS ASKED ME TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND, HE IS A MARRIED MEN AND am not a sikh. Actuality in don't practice any religion i do believe in god but that's about it, don't go to church ether. He makes me very happy i love him and i know he loves me too. Even tho he will never get a divorce i will love him that way, because i know he will always be mine.

He has told me i have been the only girl he has been with besides hes wife. And i do believe him. I JUST LOVE HIM SO MUCH. WE SEE EACH OTHER A LOT (WELL WHEN HE CAN GET OUT OF HIS HOUSE), WE MAKE LOVE LIKE ANY LOVER DOES, WE PRACTICE ORAL SEX, ANAL AND VAGINAL WE HAVE TOUCHED EACH OTHER IN EVERY FORM. have question him if what we are doing is right and he always tells me the same thing 'if god didn't wanted me to do these why did he put me in your path?' to that i don't have an answer in i wish sometimes we had meet a long time ago so we shouldn't be in sin. He is a big big big sikh because he does everything hes religion tells him to be done, except to what we are doing.

I AM NOT A SIKH. ACTUALITY IN DON'T PRACTICE ANY RELIGION I DO BELIEVE IN GOD BUT THAT'S ABOUT IT, DON'T GO TO CHURCH ETHER. HE MAKES ME VERY HAPPY I LOVE HIM AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME TOO. EVEN THO HE WILL NEVER GET A DIVORCE I WILL LOVE HIM THAT WAY, BECAUSE I KNOW HE WILL ALWAYS BE MINE. HE HAS TOLD ME I HAVE BEEN THE ONLY GIRL HE HAS BEEN WITH BESIDES HES WIFE. AND I DO BELIEVE HIM. I HAVE QUESTION HIM IF WHAT WE ARE DOING IS RIGHT AND HE ALWAYS TELLS ME THE SAME THING 'IF GOD DIDN'T WANTED ME TO DO THESE WHY DID HE PUT ME IN YOUR PATH?' TO THAT I DON'T HAVE AN ANSWER IN I WISH SOMETIMES WE HAD MEET A LONG TIME AGO SO WE SHOULDN'T BE IN SIN. HE IS A BIG BIG BIG SIKH BECAUSE HE DOES EVERYTHING HES RELIGION TELLS HIM TO BE DONE, EXCEPT TO WHAT WE ARE DOING. I HAVE ASKED HIM IF HE FEELS LIKE HE HAS TO LET ME GO I WILL LET HIM GO BUT UNTIL HE TELLS ME TO, BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN THINKING A LOT ON HIS WIFE THAT SHE DON'T DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON AND ALSO IN THE CONSEQUENCES OF WHAT GOD MIGHT HAVE FOR US. WE HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT ME GETTING PREGNANT AND I AM MORE THEN HAPPY TO GIVE HIM A BABY BUT I AM ALSO AFRAID OF WHAT IS FAMILY MIGHT SAY AND WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN HIS CIRCLE OF WHAT INVOLVES HIS BELIEVES, HIS WIFE HIS PARENTS, HIS FRIENDS, ALL AF THAT INCLUDING GODS WILL. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT CAN BE THE CONSEQUENCES FOR HIM IF HIS RELIGION AND HIS PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT ME A TYPICAL WONDERING GIRL? AND IF IT IS TYPICAL FOR SIKH MEN TO CHEAT AND THERE WIFES? IN MY DEFENSE I HAVE TO SAY I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEARTH!!!

      THANK YOU FOR NOT JUDGING! AND FOR YOUR ANSWERS!