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I find myself stuck in a relationship

I believe in sikhism but not a sikh, I got betrayed by a sikh man who used me and left me. After betrayal i was completely shattered nothing was happening good in my life then I started looking for a job and was able to find it with the help of a man. We started talking to each other. He is jaat but he is a good human being. I initiated the relationship but later on i find that his earnings are (20k) not that enough to have a good life in Gurgaon. He has fallen in love with me and he always says he will not be able to live without me. Daily we have fights as he is not a career focussed and also he doesn’t get any financial support from his father. He is trying but not getting good results in his job. I have committed him to get marry with him but now looking at his income my mind says i will not be able to survive in this salary my heart says we cannot leave someone just for money. Please help what should i do now? I believe waheguru will not forgive me if i will leave him

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I find myself stuck in a relationship

I believe in sikhism but not a sikh, I got betrayed by a sikh man who used me and left me. After betrayal i was completely shattered nothing was happening good in my life then I started looking for a job and was able to find it with the help of a man. We started talking to each other. He is jaat but he is a good human being. I initiated the relationship but later on i find that his earnings are (20k) not that enough to have a good life in Gurgaon. He has fallen in love with me and he always says he will not be able to live without me. Daily we have fights as he is not a career focussed and also he doesn’t get any financial support from his father. He is trying but not getting good results in his job. I have committed him to get marry with him but now looking at his income my mind says i will not be able to survive in this salary my heart says we cannot leave someone just for money. Please help what should i do now? I believe waheguru will not forgive me if i will leave him