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asked 2016-06-02 10:59:23 -0500

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I think I've lack of remorse. I feel indifferent when I've hurt or mistreated someone, in fact I dont feel regretful becuase I dont think I've mistreated anyone. What should I do? Can God help me?

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answered 2016-06-02 11:06:50 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

updated 2016-06-02 11:52:30 -0500

This is ego - haumai. It isn't about what you think. It's about how the other person feels. I would say you lack empathy. What should you do? Well if you really don't feel any remorse or think you did anything wrong, then why would you want to do anything at all? You say... "I've hurt or mistreated someone..." The very fact that you asked about this shows me that you actually do feel remorse, even though you say you don't.

Basically this boils down to an unblossomed heart. May the Guru bless you that your heart opens by his divine touch and you experience that the other person IS you. You are not separate.

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I have empathy and I know what the other person is feeling, but I don't feel any remorse. I know that if I mistreat someone, I mistreat myslef, but thats how it is.... My heart is empty. How can Guru bless me? What can I do?

Secret gravatar imageSecret ( 2016-06-02 11:18:19 -0500 )edit

What do you really want? Do you want a full heart? Why did you close your heart in the first place? All children have an open heart before some hurt causes them to close down. The answer to this lies within you. You have to go to places within you that you want to hide. There's work to be done.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2016-06-02 11:55:13 -0500 )edit

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