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asked 2018-03-01 21:01:56 -0500

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updated 2018-03-02 03:28:21 -0500

Not at all Punjabi gravatar image

I have a very good friend he is in 11 grade and unfortunately he failed in 11 and now he is requesting appeal to the. Chairman (head)of our school for making him give the retests ...Because our principal is not listening to his pleads and the chairman of the school is my relative (long distance relationship) ...Pls tell me what should I do ..I am stuck and I don't want to break his trust cause he is such a nice friend of mine. Pls tell me how can I help him

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answered 2018-03-02 03:25:58 -0500

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But the question arises here is, does the school got any such provisions for the failed students to take a retest. Because in my Country, particularly in the Province from which i come from, once a student fails in an exam in one subject then he/she is allowed to take a retest known as Compartment of that particular subject but if the student fails in multiple subjects then his/her whole year is wasted.

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answered 2018-03-05 00:28:04 -0500

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This is a very difficult question to respond to. In my culture - North American - it would be considered unethical for me to ask a relative to intervene on my friends behalf. Why? because it would give him unfair advantage that others taking the same classes would not have. So, for me, I would most likely need to set boundaries with him and tell him that I cannot interfere with the principal's process. The risk, though, is that he may be very angry with me and may end our friendship. Even if I told him that he is very important to me, and that the reason I cannot assist him, is because I cannot corrupt the integrity of my relative by tempting him to intervene in a case that is not ethically one he can interfere with.

It is not easy, but I wish you all the best in however you decide to approach this moral dilemma.

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answered 2019-07-20 00:57:44 -0500

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Keep on focus on your studies you will get good progress in your career growth

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