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So basically having a bf is wrong. Against sikh maryada due to (kaam) and lust is a big problem. Knowing it's wrong. We're on the verge of getting married soon

Hopefully taking amrit before that MAharajj ji di kirpa naal.

What' about (kaam) having lust even when ur married n wish to do whenver ? Is that still kaam.. N Problem is at the moment we're trying soo hard to be a better person i mean we increased our daily routine to do extra paath go gurudwara more to be in a good environment n good sangat.

However after all that trying the feeling still comes.

Thanks for the answer before helped allot. Believe me. After both of us seeing that video link we realised n thought why this never came to our heads beforehand.

I need. More options to provide my bf as well.. its really hard to control a man in those terms at the moment.. He's got good sangat around him n he's being helpings himself by doing extra paath so Much.. but he can't control its really hard for him. N im sure being an amritdhari or not every man has that feelings as your stills human...

Thanks for all the help you have. Might be confusing so I apologise if it' has been. Thanks for the previous.. hopefully I'll get one afternoon this.. Bless!!.. Waheguru jii kirpa banaye rakhan.