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Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki Fateh!

Nine years is a long time. You have formed the habit, and so has he. He is mother's boy. Marriage is for both partners to serve together, grow together, support each other, confront each other, enjoy each other and reach the infinity together. The center of your marriage is the Guru and the Sadhsangat, not the blood family. If you take all the time and energy you spend thinking about him and about your relationship and put that into your relationship with your Guru and into working on yourself, your dilemma will end. Guru arranges the marriage, not parents. You have made the habit. It is an emotional comfort. Lay your attachment at Guru's charan and consciously let him arrange your affairs.