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My brother got married in feb’18 when my bhabhi came home, she started doing drama. We are middle class family. My brother is supporting my father in their business. I was preparing for CA wen she came but she didn’t let me study peacefully for a single. Daily she used to fight for small issues and compel my brother to fight with me and my mom. She was jealous of me being laadli to papa and mamma.she got separated and started living on 1st floor. Becoz of those daily fights I thought to move for a job, I started looking for a job and by almighty’s grace and love i got it. I moved to Gurgaon and she got united with mom. She doesn’t wants to do any household chores neither she wants to do dishes nor she wants to clean the house in absence of maids. My mom is doing everything. Only she cooks food for 2 times a day. Whenever I used to visit a home she gets angry and doesn’t want to talk to me and always creates issues between me mom and brother. My brother misbehaves with mom and dad he doesn’t not talk with any respect. They both don’t want them to ask any questions where are they going and so on... As they stopped talking to my mom and cooking for them. My mom dad feels bad. How wud they understand the love of parents? Please help I m worried for my mom dad

I believe in sikhism but not a sikh, I got betrayed by a sikh man who used me and left me. After betrayal i was completely shattered nothing was happening good in my life then I started looking for a job and was able to find it with the help of a man. We started talking to each other. He is jaat but he is a good human being. I initiated the relationship but later on i find that his earnings are (20k) not that enough to have a good life in Gurgaon. He has fallen in love with me and he always says he will not be able to live without me. Daily we have fights as he is not a career focussed and also he doesn’t get any financial support from his father. He is trying but not getting good results in his job. I have committed him to get marry with him but now looking at his income my mind says i will not be able to survive in this salary my heart says we cannot leave someone just for money. Please help what should i do now? I believe waheguru will not forgive me if i will leave him