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Hi, I am a 25 year old Jatt girl and am dating a 25 year old rajput boy. We are both punjabi, both follow Sikhism. We are not amritdhari. We went to grad school together and both have MBAs. My parents are amritdhari and against inter-caste marriages. My cousin got married to a Kamboj boy and everyone looked down upon it. She was less educated than him so people blamed it on her education. They only believe inter-caste works where both the boy and girl are amritdhari. I have tried to get over him, but I truly feel like he is my soul mate!! Another thing--he has bought a house in Vancouver (he is originally from Chandigarh) to try to balance out economical factors (I was born & raised in Vancouver). My parents are getting rishtas for me of doctors/lawyers/businessmen. They have paid for all of my education--am I being selfish for staying with my boyfriend? PLEASE HELP & SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES!! THANK YOU!

Hi, I am a 25 year old Jatt girl and am dating a 25 year old rajput boy. We are both punjabi, both follow Sikhism. We are not amritdhari. We went to grad school together and both have MBAs. My parents are amritdhari and against inter-caste marriages. My cousin got married to a Kamboj boy and everyone looked down upon it. She was less educated than him so people blamed it on her education. They only believe inter-caste works where both the boy and girl are amritdhari. I have tried to get over him, but I truly feel like he is my soul mate!! Another thing--he has bought a house in Vancouver (he is originally from Chandigarh) to try to balance out economical factors (I was born & raised in Vancouver). My parents are getting rishtas for me of doctors/lawyers/businessmen. They have paid for all of my education--am I being selfish for staying with my boyfriend? PLEASE HELP & SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES!! THANK YOU!

Hi, I am a 25 year old Jatt girl and am dating a 25 year old rajput boy. We are both punjabi, both follow Sikhism. We are not amritdhari. We went to grad school together and both have MBAs. My parents are amritdhari and against inter-caste marriages. My cousin got married to a Kamboj boy and everyone looked down upon it. She was less educated than him so people blamed it on her education. They only believe inter-caste works where both the boy and girl are amritdhari. I have tried to get over him, but I truly feel like he is my soul mate!! Another thing--he has bought a house in Vancouver (he is originally from Chandigarh) to try to balance out economical factors (I was born & raised in Vancouver). My parents are getting rishtas for me of doctors/lawyers/businessmen. They have paid for all of my education--am I being selfish for staying with my boyfriend? PLEASE HELP & SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES!! THANK YOU!