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Need help on ending my life

asked 2017-10-29 18:25:43 -0600

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updated 2017-11-08 12:38:27 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Hi. I’m from Sikh family. I’m planning to end my life soon. I don’t know what to do I’m in debt, no one trust me, I’m addicted to gambling I already prayed many times infront of my guru ji that is Guru granth sahib ji that I don’t want to live anymore and i can’t live anymore Can some tell me is there any ardas so that my soul can leave my body

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answered 2017-10-30 00:29:09 -0600

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I am sorry to hear that you are struggling. It sounds like you are feeling overwhelmed and are not able to see solutions. I will try to help you problem-solve a little bit. Since you sound like you are in crisis, I would recommend talking to a professional/going to the emergency room. Have you tried talking to family, doctor, someone you trust? Professionals know how to deal with suicidal thoughts, they are trained in helping you learn how to cope with life’s stress no matter how extreme and helping you to get through this crisis. They can help. I care about your life and I hope that you go to get some help. You don’t have to do this alone. I found these additional resources: Gn frequently mentions http://sikhhelpline.com/ In Canada we have various local crisis hotlines and 9-1-1, the U.S. - Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433). In the UK and Ireland - Call the Samaritans at 116 123 In Australia - Call Lifeline Australia at 13 11 14 In other countries - Visit IASP or Suicide.org. Doctors are especially good in hospitals because they connect you with for example other supports like social work and people who can help with the debt, and then for the gambling, there are specialists who know how to deal with those problems. Sometimes it just takes different ways to solve a problem than you’ve tried before. Trust can be rebuilt. I encourage you to remove all possible ways you are thinking of ending your life, all dangerous means in your home, and staying away from alcohol, and staying in the company of people around you (not being alone).

God has given us this gift of life and we all, no matter what we’ve gone through have that chance to meet Waheguru in this life and move through our hardships. What are the things that you enjoy in life? who are the people who are important to you? These people will be hurt. Remember these reasons to live. Think about what has helped you through hard times before. In Sikhi we are taught about the cycle of 8.4 million births to obtain this human life. Many people struggling like you can turn their lives around. I would encourage you to seek help from a professional

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answered 2017-10-30 10:27:44 -0600

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It is at the moment that you reach rock-bottom, when you feel completely helpless, when you feel completely alone and abandoned; when you feel that you don't have enough resources to deal with what's happening in your life... it is at that VERY moment that you have the opportunity of a lifetime.

In that moment you give up, you surrender, you say, "Guru Ji, I can't deal with this; I just can't do it. Please save me."

In that moment... that moment of complete letting go and totally surrendering, comes Guru Ji's kirpa.

This is a test. Surrender and live, or choose to die and be reborn to face exactly the same situation in 8.4 million more lifetimes.

If you cry for help from the depth of your heart, Guru Ji has no choice but to answer your prayer.

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answered 2017-11-01 08:55:32 -0600

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Your not the only one in debt or with a gambling problem (https://www.reddit.com/r/problemgambl...) you could get help from people who've had similar problems.

Also what country are you in? The are Sikh groups all over the world that can support you.

Your a daughter/son of Guru Gobind Singh whatever problems we have our father can get us out, have faith and battle life.

Get advice and support from this forum and other https://www.reddit.com/r/Sikh when you need help.

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answered 2017-11-06 07:44:06 -0600

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updated 2017-11-06 07:46:18 -0600

suicide is the worst option ,i also tried this, when i was in 12 class i was preparing for IIT Jee that time my class teachers was not supporting me and they demoralised me that i can't do anything i will sell vegetables on thela, i got totally frustrated and my thumb neurons become very weak i was not able to write at that time i thought my career is end, one time i hanged myself with bedsheet on fan i was almost died when i woke up i was on the bed still i don't know how i was on the bed then i had took a decsion that i would fight , and i got admission in Delhi Technical University and NIT Kurukshetra in 2012 and after 3 years I was able to write with my left hand and now i can write with my both hands and after B.tech I am Doing M.tech and i also got good placement , I am hindu i started read SRI GURU GRANTH SAHIB Ji and executed what guruji says and I feel happiness after very long time so no one should think about suicide we should follow guruji it teaches us to fight with problems SGGS guruji makes us feel happy and who follows never feel alone

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