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hi, i understand your situation and i understand your concern but one thing i would definitely say is in no situation should you leave your mum and run of with that guy. give your mum some time and she will hopefully understand your point of view, its probably not easy for to accept this. like any mother she probably also had a dream or a hope of the kind of guy she would want as her son in law. and the fact that she wants him to be well off is not for herself, it for YOU! she wants you to go into your house knowing that you won't have to go through difficulties related to money and your childrens future will also be secure. i would suggest that you pray to waheguru maybe do a sukhmani sahib path if your are not doing it and things will work out. but i don't think you should run away and leave your mum alone and give your relatives a reason to torture your mum even further. and maybe also you can ask your boyfriend to meet your mum a couple of times so that they can come on the same platform and maybe the doubts your mum has will be cleared and any other misunderstanding
sorry that was a bit too long. sorry if i said anything rude. waheguru is with you remember him and things will work out best of luck :)