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I'm so sorry to hear about your dilemma. Rest assured that this too will pass. How do you know for sure that she considers you a brother? I'm not sure how old you are, but try talking to her (or her family) and let her know how you feel. Be straightforward, honest and respectful. If she doesn't feel the same way, then you have your answer and you can move on with a clear mind. It's tough and it may hurt a while, but keep doing naam simran and your activities at the gurdwara to keep yourself busy. Trust me, their are plenty of other eligible women around you, just keep your eyes and your heart open. In the end, relationships are determined by God, we meet and marry the people we do based on our karmas. Take the time to grow and learn about yourself. All the best.