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Waheguru Jee Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Jee Ki Fateh!

Penji,

I'm sorry to hear how you are feeling.

First of all I would like to say that you can translate the Hukamnama on an app you can get on mobile phones called dhur ki bani. If anyone else can point out other translation devices it would be useful?!

Personally I would advise you not to talk to him. At this moment in time, from what you have mentioned about how he stopped talking to you, he is not interested. I know your intentions aren't bad, and you just want to explain yourself. But I think you should leave it for a while. Maybe one say you'll be friends again and you can talk, or it will all be forgotten about. But this guy clearly doesn't know how to handle this kind of thing, and I really think it's best if you just leave it.

Trust me, I have gone through this kind of thing. It's very easy for a young girl to get attached to the idea of someone. Think about it this way, if it's meant to be, it will happen. So you just need to leave it. I'm gonna be honest with you, I wish someone was this honest with me, it would have saved me the heartache. This guy most probably doesn't like you back in the same way. And you can't force someone to like you. I know you really really like him, and you can probably imagine some sort of future. But you have to stop wasting time thinking about him. You will look back on this and think why the hell did I do that?! I did!

Watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQvungHnuS0 It will answer all your questions.

In terms of getting into Sikhi that is perfectly fine. But please don't change who you are for some person. There are so many resources online about Sikhi, and youtube vids. Get inspired and then aspire to be a Sikh!

I hope you are no longer cutting yourself. It makes me very sad to hear that. You are a beautiful young girl and one day you will meet someone and you'll know it was meant to be. But first love yourself, and rid yourself of this depression.

Wahegurooo <3